"2. Closed-minded people are more likely to make statements than ask questions. While believability entitles you to make statements in certain circumstances, truly open-minded people, even the most believable
people I know, always ask a lot of questions. Nonbelievable people often tell me that their statements are actually implicit questions, though they’re phrased as low-confidence statements. While that’s sometimes true, in my experience it’s more often not.
Open-minded people genuinely believe they could be wrong; the questions that they ask are genuine. They also assess their relative believability to determine whether their primary role should be as a student, a teacher, or a peer.
2.头脑封闭的人更喜欢做陈述而不是提 问。尽管在特定情况下,可信度高的人有权 做出陈述,但真正头脑开放的人,甚至是我 认识的可信度最高的人,也经常会问很多问 题。可信度低的人经常告诉我,他们的陈述 其实是隐性的问题,只不过是被表述为低自 信程度的陈述。尽管有时的确如此,但据我 的经验,更多情况下不是。
头脑开放的人真诚地相信自己可能是错 的,提出真诚的问题。他们还经常权衡自己 的相对可信度,以确定自己应该主要扮演学 生、老师还是对等者的角色。"
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