Sometimes, when you set out a goal for yourself and the only person that knows about it is you.
It's very easy to say like it doesn't matter.
But if you actually declare it publicly, such as you say to your friends like I am going to learn how to code. Then you have some accountability right to other people not just yourself.
As humans we find it much harder to deal with like public embarrassment or public scorn when you declare that you are going to quit smoking and then the next time they see you are smoking away.
So one of the ways that you can use other people's help in motivating yourself is to just declare it public.
Go on Twitter on Weibo on Wechat tell your fridens like I am going to work one hour a day on learning listening and speaking English and I'm going to check in every day and post my progress.
Try to declare publicly your intention your goal and then go onto Twitter and Wechat where you can find encouraging people who will be there telling you that you can do it.
I think it's really really helpful to achieve your goals.
So have a go at that.
2020.11.09 night
Shanghai Erlian
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