Today I chatted with Leo and he really enlightened me in terms of choices of life and something I am confronting now. He told me that we should know what we don’t like to do in the rest of life or even in our life. We may do this in this period and try another new one when you feel the need to change. And I do find him attractive, really. I think he is the first guy who I find him really special. I do appreciate that I can know this guy. He is awesome and I do want to like keep a friendship with him actually. He told me that I should keep a distance from negative person.
This morning I did something sort of aggressive and our friendship finally broke up. I think it might have either good consequences or bad consequences. Actually it doesn’t matter, you should really know that your study comes first. Why am I supposed to compete with her?
Today I think it was totally a triumph! I finally figured out reasons why I continuously broke up relationship with my friends and the best best way to keep friendship by chatting with my mom. At first, both of us didn’t know the solution to this energy-consuming problems. It got clear as we discussed deep into it.
I used to look for a deep relationship with others and I saw them as my best friends. Thus, I put a lot of emotion into our relationship. I initially broke our friendship due to that my friends didn’t response me in a way I wanted, which made me feel hurt. Therefore, we came to conclusion that the best way to deal with this awkward situation is avoiding having any connection with her anymore.
I learnt that don’t expect too much from your friends and the best way to maintain a sound and healthy relationship is not being so close to each other.
When you come to a new environment, don’t rush yourself to make friends but observe people around you. You know friendship will come naturally. There is no use seeking it, you will attract people. You should also have disciplines towards making friends. Don’t make friends with negative people.
Don’t depend on anyone, financially or psychologically.
I finished my arousal part of essay approximately 70 percent, 15% for introverts and extroverts, 10% for language, 5% for coherence. Speaking to yourself in a positive way will make your life totally different.
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