【可人随记*气质】己亥年六月廿,新历2019年7月22日,周一,晴热高温。
上班,修改下各县报上来的简报,上周已签发的信息发到微信公众号上,写了周六晚上市作协主席团学习信息,跟照片一起发给市文联。要集中精力多读好书,有目标的读。
见多了油腻,看多了浮躁,就会发现,活得干净有多么难得。一个喜欢养花的人说,几乎是所有的白花都很香。这个结论是:人也一样,愈朴素单纯的人,愈有内在的芳香。干净,是一个人最好的气质。
明了生之为人的荒诞和无意义,追寻到最后,反而会让你不再思考这一问题,从而充盈地过好每一天。
昨天跟一群文友际头村游玩,文友谈起她前几天遇到的事:叫了外卖,迟到30分钟,送来的那一刻,告诉她没事、辛苦了,好评,还给她拿了一瓶水。为什么这样做?首先送餐的是位女性,女人是用来呵护的,其次室外温度35度,第三看她一眼就知道她非常着急,内心充斥着恐惧和不安,教育人的目的是为了让一切变得更好,而不是让她人受苦。遇到这样的人点餐,速递员是幸运的。
睡前阅读【三十年河东,四十年河西】的由来:
安史之乱爆发后,郭子仪率兵南征北战,为平定叛乱立下了汗马功劳,唐明皇因而把公主许配给郭子仪做儿媳,并为他建造了富丽堂皇的河东府。
不久新宅添孙,全家上下高兴自不必说,但郭子仪的孙子从小在蜜水里泡大,娇生惯养成性,长大后挥霍无度,等到先辈们去世后,门庭渐渐衰落,没用几年时间,万贯家产就被消耗殆尽,他只好沿街乞讨。一天,他来到河西庄,想起30多年前的奶妈,便去寻访,庄前左右都问遍了,可是人们都说不知道,郭孙非常扫兴,天快黑了,这时,又走来一个农夫,他上前一打听,原来竟是乳母的儿子,他们一边说,一边走,一会儿就到家了。进入院宅,放眼望去,只见粮囤座座,牛马成群。郭孙不解地问:”家财如此富有,你为什么还要自己劳作呢?”主人说:”家产再大,也有吃空的时候。家母在世的时候,率领我们发奋创业,才得这些家产。勤俭持家,其中乐趣无穷啊!”郭孙听后非常惭愧。主人不忘旧情,拘留郭孙管账,无奈他对管账一窍不通,主人不禁叹息到:”真是三十年河东享不尽荣华宝贵,四十年河西寄人篱下。”
从此,”三十年河东,四十年河西”便传开了。勤俭持家,拥有一技之长,这是立身之本。
许多念念不忘,只是一瞬;
许多一瞬,却是念念不忘。
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