说到成功这个话题，我想每个人都有每个人的定义，但是我们每个人都渴望成功的，有些人认为赚到了一大笔钱就是成功，也有些人认为健康就是成功，还有人认为完好的家庭好好生活就是成功，有一部分人认为有事业才算是成功. 成功一词，是所有人前进的目标。
我们来看看成功的几个重要特征，你会怎么选呢？
尊严、健康、贡献、金钱、地位，学识、亲情、权势、睿智、威望
我们来看看牛津词典对成功的定义：
Success is the fact that you have achieved sth that you want and have been trying to do or get; the fact of becoming rich or famous or of getting a high social position
成功是指你已经达到了你想要的，并且一直在努力去做或得到的东西；成为有钱人或名人，或获得一个很高的社会地位的事实
在当代社会，可悲的是社会价值观过于统一，金钱成为唯一衡量标准，很多人失去了鲜活的情绪和生活,也迷失了自己的位置和方向
In the contemporary society, it is sad that the social values are too unified, money is the only measure, many people have lost their fresh emotions and lives, and also lost their position and direction
我们去判断一个人是否成功，不能只去看金钱，地位等这些表面的荣光，而应该去看他的生活状态和生活质量，就是说看她生活的健康不健康，快乐不快乐，幸福不幸福
We can't judge a person's success only by money, status and other superficial glory, but by his life state and quality, that is to say, the health, happiness and unhappiness of her life
看她对自己对他人，对社会有没有做出什么积极的贡献，获得有没有价值和意义，如果她健康，快乐， 幸福，对他人，对社会有切实的贡献，他就应该是成功的，人生也是一个成功的人生！
See if she has made any positive contribution to others and the society, and whether it has value and significance to gain. If she is healthy, happy and happy, and has practical contribution to others and the society, he should be successful, and life is also a successful life!
我搜集了很多关于成功的定义，我们来一起分享一下他们对成功的定义，看看是否符合自己内心的标准:
Ø英国戏剧家、诗人莎士比亚曾作过这样的阐释：成功“就是一个人为追求他的理想而不断获得道德、学识、才干去发展到能够利用机会使社会人类进一步的那种表现”。
Shakespeare, a British dramatist and poet, once explained that success "is the kind of performance that a person constantly obtains morality, knowledge and ability to develop to be able to make use of the opportunity to further human beings in society in order to pursue his ideal".
成功的方式从来只有一种，就是以自己喜欢的方式度过这一生
There is only one way to succeed, which is to spend the life in the way you like.
成功就是你在不经意间想到自己人生的某个片段，从而嘴角微微上扬，默默给自己点了个赞，觉得自己是个还不错的人。那个片段，就是你的成功
Success is that you inadvertently think of a certain segment of your life, so that the corner of your mouth slightly rises, silently praise yourself, and feel that you are a good person. That segment is your success
卡耐基认为成功是帮助个体改变自己的不良习惯，调整行为模式。如果有足够自信，那么每个人都能成功。
Carnegie believes that success is to help individuals change their bad habits and adjust their behavior patterns. If you have enough confidence, everyone can succeed.
如此看来，成功，不在于一个人达到了一个什么目的，获得了一个什么东西，取得了一个什么位置
In this way, success does not lie in what goal a person has achieved, what he has achieved, what position he has achieved
更重要的是，在于他经历了一种什么样的生活，他拥有了一个什么样的心态，保持了一个什么样的心情，表现出了一种什么样的姿态，得到了一种什么样的感受，他对自己、对他人、对社会发挥了一种什么样的作用，造成了一种什么样的影响，等等。
More importantly, what kind of life he has experienced, what kind of mentality he has, what kind of mood he has maintained, what kind of attitude he has shown, what kind of feeling he has gained, what kind of feeling he has What kind of effect has been exerted on oneself, others and society, what kind of influence has been caused, etc.
如果他的存在和努力是正面的、积极的、有价值有意义的，那就可以说他是成功的；否则，就是失败的，最起码，也不能算是成功。
If his existence and efforts are positive, positive, valuable and meaningful, then it can be said that he is successful; otherwise, it is a failure, at least not a success.
每一个人都在努力追求成功、避免失败。但是，当我们把失败拒之门外的时候，往往我们也很难获得真正的成功。毕竟，没有失败过的成功会显得没有太多份量。
那么如何才能成功呢？So how can we succeed?
1.确立自己的人生目标，并且专注这个目标去奋斗
Set your own life goal and focus on it
我们每个人的一生总会追求一些目标，我们都应该根据自身状况和爱好去设定一个目标，因为未来的生活一定是由我们自己决定的，真正改变自己的也永远是自己。
Each of us will always pursue some goals in our life. We should set a goal according to our own conditions and hobbies, because the future life must be decided by ourselves, and what really changes us is always ourselves.
不要受现实社会的干扰，不必因为别人的忽悠而一窝蜂涌向“风口”，不必因为别人外表的光鲜而自卑或自暴自弃，更不必因为短时间内还没有看到回报就放弃自己的路。
Don't be disturbed by the real society, don't rush to the "wind vent" because of other people's deception, don't feel inferior or despotic because of other people's appearance, let alone give up your own way because you haven't seen the return in a short time.
2.珍惜当下的时间，无论何时都要坚持
Cherish the present time and stick to it at all times
把时间利用起来才能发挥真正的价值，不能把我们珍贵的时间浪费在没有用的事情上，去做些自己想做的事情，如果你真的投入其中，你会发现时间不够用
Use time to realize its real value. You can’t waste our precious time on useless things. Do what you want to do. If you really invest in it, you will find that time is not enough.
这个时代从不辜负人，它只是磨炼我们，磨炼每一个试图改变自己命运的平凡人。”只要时间还在行走，每一个人就可以尝试更多的东西，在有合适机会的时候就能起飞
"This time never fails to live up to humans. It just tempers us and tempers every ordinary person who tries to change their destiny." As long as time is still walking, everyone can try more things, and when there is a suitable opportunity, take off
3.有一个正能量的朋友圈，和有一个乐观积极的心态
Have a positive circle of friends, and have an optimistic and positive attitude
精简自己的朋友圈，老是打牌赌博等负能量的朋友，赶紧离开，好让自己以更好的状态去迎接未来，专注于要做的事情时，我们才会发现自己变得越来越好。
Simplify your circle of friends, always playing cards, gambling and other negative energy friends, and leave quickly, so that we can meet the future in a better state, and focus on what we need to do, we will find ourselves getting better and better.
有时想想，所谓成功，其实就像幸福一样，并没有什么公认的、具体的、统一的标准，而似乎完全在于自己的感觉和表现。一件事情，你干成了，就是成功的；没干成，就是失败的。或者，尽管一件事情还没有干成，但它却为自己积累了经验，总结了教训，增长了智慧，锻炼了才干，且为接下来的走向成功，奠定了基础，这非但不能算是失败，而且也可以算作是另一种成功。这就是失败是成功之母的由来。
其实只要每个人根据自己的目标，不断地去奋斗，体现出自我的价值，无论结局如何其实你都是成功的人。而成功后你会觉得成功路上的考验都是值得的，你也会笑着向它们致敬！”
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