AC1 Love 20170715

My dear friends, ladies and gentleman, good afternoon.I would like to do a survey, If your answer is yes, PLEASE RAISE YOUR HANDS UP

Do you love kids? Yes, most of you love kids. you think kids are so cute and lovely? Right?Yes, most of you think so. I see the answers from your eyes.

I really doubt some of you do not have a kid right now. If you really have a kid, I think you won’t say you love kid so easily. Because kid is really magic. sometimes they’re like angle, sometime they’re like evil.

I have a son. He is five years old. Unlike other kids, he is always an evil.

My kid like water so much and like to play in water with different kinds of ways.

In the beginning of this year, I bought a fancy diary for myself. I hope I could use this diary to manage my time efficiently. I loved this dairy very much. But the disaster happened on a weekend, I forgot to bring my diary with me when I left home. When I come back home, I found my diary is laying on the table.HOWEVER, It was not  my favourite diary anymore,it became double sized, and water kept leaking from the pages. The paper got all curved.I picked it up and shouted, who did this.

My kid said in a low voice, “Mama, I found your diary is dirty, so I helped you wash it. Look, I washed it so clean.”

At that moment, I wanted to cry, what should I say?

Of course, I didn’t say anything. I just did one thing- beat him heavily.

Another day, I was brushing my teeth, my son came to me and said,

“Mama, your teeth is so white. “

“Yes, because mama like brush my teeth everyday.”

“Mama, I like your tooth brush so much, I used it brush the toilet just now.”

Ah, what should I say?

Of course, I didn’t say anything. I just did one thing- shouted at him and beat him heavily.

Except this kind of things, what droveme crazy is that he always ask me to play with him.

You know, I’m s obusy. I always need to work overtime at home. One day, I had meeting with our WW boss in the sitting room, my baby run to me and said, “mama,. I want to play with you.”

I muted my phone and said nicely with him. “Mom have an important meeting right now, can you play with yourself, later I will play with you.”

My boy did not stop but kept saying, “No, no, no, I want to play with you now.”

From the phone, I already heard my manager is asking my name to answer a question. So I shouted at him “Get out.” And I pushed him out of my room and locked the door.

After the meeting, I came out of the room. My kid is playing with his favourite car lonely. He talked with the car. I’m the police man, I drive the police car.

At that time,I felt so regret. Why I shouted at him. Why I couldn’t control my feelings.

I sat there silently and looked at my phone. I hope I can find a way to solve the conflicts between my son and me.

Suddenly, I saw a message in my wechat. There will be a parent-child relationship training held by Gao Xin Union.

WoW, God bless me. Gao Xin Union is so wonderful and they know we need this kind of training.

I heard from my friend that she met her boyfriend in a reading salon also held by Gao Xin Union.

I believe this training should also be good and can help me get out of my current situation.

What’s more,  this kind of training is always expensive, but the training held by GaoXin Union is free.

So I attended the training without any doubt. During the training, I really learned a lot. I knew that my love to the kid is not true love. Because, I never respect my son,I never treat my son as a man, I never put myself in my son’s shoes. When any conflict happened, I just used violence to solve the problem.

Now he can obey me after I beat him.

But when he grow up, if I beat him, will he obey me?

No. Because I didn’t respect him at all.

I always thought if I give my son better education, that is love. But after the training, I realized I was totally wrong. The true love for my son should be patient with him, be kind with him and always try to accompany him.

After the training.I started to do some little changes.

When he washed my another book in the water. I smiled and said nicely, “You are a hard working guy, can you help mom wash my socks? ”

When he used my tooth brush brush the toilet another day, I passed him the toilet brush and said nicely, “Dear son, If you use this toilet brush to brush the toilet, mama will be happier.”

When he asked me to play with him, I will act as a thief, and he acts as a policeman, we run and chase in the garden happily.

The magic thing happened. My son become happier and happier. He wants to talk with me what happened in the kindergarten, what his dream is.

My dear friends,if you want to show your true love to your parents, to your spounse, to your kid.

Please be kind with them, even sometimes you are in a bad mood.

Please be patient with them, even sometimes you are in a hurry for something.

Please accompany them more, even you are so busy with your work.

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

Thats the love