2019-05-12 To walk in the road

A magical learning trip, the next day is mother's day.

In the past, I often wanted to prepare a gift for my mother during the holiday. To be clear, a gift was prepared to complete the task. I am talking about completing this task.

In other words, this is a intentional expression, not a deliberate performance.

For me, the intention will let themselves into feelings, feelings will touch their soft place。 in fact, I am very worried about love my mother, because I am afraid of losing my mother one day, because I am afraid of losing. So I didn't dare to put my heart into it.

In the past days, I feel in my way to love my mother, is good to my mother, rarely think about what my mother wants, which led to the process of getting along with my mother, there have been some false happiness.

Like lovers in love, one side always loves the other in its own way, rather than the way the other side wants to love, the more invested the more strange. It's not good. It's really not good ~

From today on, be a lovely, smart daughter.

To love someone, is not to love each other and wronged themselves, but to help themselves to love each other, so that the other will feel happy.

——To walk in the road of pure and good woman's own

一个神奇的学习之旅，第二天是母亲节。

过去，我常想在节日里给母亲准备一份礼物，澄清一下，准备一份礼物是用来完成任务的，这里我说的是完成这项任务。

换句话说，这是有心的表现，而不是用心的表现。

对我来说，用心会让自己投入感情，感情会碰触自己柔软的地方。其实我是很担心自己很爱妈妈，因为很害怕有一天失去妈妈，因为害怕失去，所以不敢用心投入。

在过去的日子里，我觉得以自己的方式去爱她，就是对妈妈好，很少去想她想要什么，这导致与妈妈相处的过程中，出现了一些虚假快乐。

如同爱河的情侣，一方总是以自己的方式爱着对方，而不是对方想要的方式去爱，越是投入越是陌生。这样不好，真的不好~

从今天起，做一个可爱的聪明女儿。

去爱一个人，并不是为了爱对方而委屈自己，而是成全自己再去爱对方，这样对方才会觉得幸福、快乐。

——致走在纯洁善良女人道路上的自己