今天的文章来着我与我朋友Niaz的对话，他是个小天使
Q：I can't figure out why the one who hurts you is always the one who loved you
A：Bruce Lee, one of my heroes, once described love as a fire. At the start of the fire, the flames are bright and high.As the fire deepens, the flames become coals, which are the hottest and strongest part of the fire.There are some on the path of love with whom we can only travel so long.Like the fire, love deepens in many layers and we have the opportunity to grow together — through effort, through moments of discomfort, through conviction, through compassion, through openness and forgiveness. Both members of the union must bring this to their love, determines how far, how deep and how high they can go together.I believe in opposites creating the whole, of life. Joy and pain. Light and dark. Harmony and chaos. The contrasts are one and the same with life. Through pain and discomfort, we are able to grow. Love is all around us and opportunities abound. The pain, I believe, can allow us to deepen in our understanding of love and its possibilities.幸, continue to be bold and courageous in your love! And always keep growing. It is the opportunity to create a ‘deep fire’, which can light many fires and guide us to discover the miracle of life and love, love and life.
Q：In such a long time,I'm shamed of my love,because I'm not sure whether it'll be accepted by others or abandoned,and once you asked me,what qualities do I care about most in myself,I said "steady",that's because I could be influenced by the interaction with my boyfriend,my emotion could changed easily,I wanna be kind to him,but not everyone think the same with me,that make me feel overwhelmed
A：Many in our world would be fortunate to have your love. I know you as a soulful, compassionate and bright star.If someone does not accept your love or ‘abandons it’ this says nothing about the quality or power of your love, and nothing about who you are as someone who loves, who wants to be loved, and who is continuing to practice loving and appreciating herself as a soulful, compassionate and bright child of the universe.In knowing and feeling this, deep inside, it is possible to practice compassionately detaching from a person. Doing this with kindness, steadiness and with your heart-knowing that you have given the relationship your best opportunity and that the decision to detach is for your highest and best growth.In knowing and feeling this, deep inside, it is possible to practice compassionately detaching from a person. Doing this with kindness, steadiness and with your heart-knowing that you have given the relationship your best opportunity and that the decision to detach is for your highest and best growth.
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