1 九月第二首英文儿歌
Esntsy weesty spider 语感启蒙
Eentsy weentsy spider went up the water sprout
Down came the rain and wash the spider out
Out came the sun and dried up all the rain
And Eentsy weentsy spider went up the sprout again
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感悟：这首儿歌我跟闺女接触的最早，可是其中有些词一直没有确定，像"dried up all the rain" ，up 被弱读的直接听不清。这次抱着弄清一切的态度，听写出了所有词汇，终于可以跟闺女好好一起唱了，认真一点不能糊弄！
2 review the "habit 2 start with the end"
On the way to my office , I listen to the audio files of habit 2 .
What is your end?
Covey introduced a thought-provoking mental experience, your own funeral. And then he shared a question "what kind of person do you want your relatives and family members think?
What do want to leave for your associate ?
What do you want to leave for the society ? " I think that means what is your mission of your life ? What is your goal in your short term? "
3 everything is created twice
First we plan out the future , then we apply the blueprint into practice. Like the carpenter , " measure twice , then act " . The other sentence I love is " what lies behind us and in front of us is tiny compared what lies within us "
The direction and destination is more important than the postive attitude and diligence . Like the one said wrong direction is like " straighten a chair in Titanic " , if we choose the wrong and doomed direction , maybe we double our speed , that just accelerats the failure . Like I took the interior decoration in 2011, I spent a whole moth to design every equipment in our house , changed the blueprint for server all times, when I am ready , the project proceeded fluently .
3 self-leadership
What is leardship ?
Peter duruke " leadership is doing the right thing, management is doing the thing right "
As I witnessed and experienced , the society and schools forced the student learned tons of knowledge, they didn't think why ? Just a stupid certification paper? They taught a lot of techniques how to pass kinds of exams . What about the competences ?
Friends around me they are passionate , they have dreams for their future , they want to earn a lot of money , have a bit house. But they know nothing about their core part . Who they are? Why they exist ?
4 the end means a new start
Covey maybe shared a action plan at the end party of this chapter , for me it not adequate , when I turned to the postive psychology in 2014, I found that we , each huamnbeing , are unique. But how to distinguish our talents and potentials? How to measure our personality? How to know our motivation desire ?
Rogan 测评报告 2014
感悟：从开始学习心理学开始，，一直困扰我的问题是对于性格差异很大的团队该用什么来驱动。最初我天真的想应该是高于任何物质金钱之类，匹配人内心深层次的欲望的东西才够资格。后来加入了头马，我慢慢懂得了需要的是使命。或许只有使命能让我们摒弃一己之私，摒弃对方的那些无关紧要的瑕疵，随时为对方做好补位，随时准备为了团队奉献自己，没有完美的个人，只有完美的团队。团队成员具有共同使命感高于一切，选择匹配的成员凌驾于通过培养和训练做出的后期努力。
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