处理好自己与身边人的关系，只要记住三句话

很多时候，人们往往善于忘记别人对自己的好处，而一旦出现无心的冒犯，却总是耿耿于怀，变成了话不投机半句多，甚至老死不相往来。想想我们身边是否有这样的事例，而人生在世，不可避免地要与人交往，要想过得愉快，就要处理好自己与身边人的关系。

处理好人际关系，要记住三句话，“看人长处、帮人难处、记人好处”。

01. 看人长处

人无完人，每个人都有缺点，如果你总是盯着别人的缺点不放，你们的关系肯定好不了，反之，学会换位思考，多看别人的优点，你就会发现，越看别人就越顺眼，就能与人处好关系，就懂得用人所长。一枝独秀不是春，百花齐放春满园。只有懂得与人友好相处的人，才能成事。懂得用人所长，你也就拥有了领袖的素质。

02. 帮人难处

就是在别人困难的时候，伸出你的援助之手，可能是举手之劳，也可能需要一定的付出，只要力所能及就好，锦上添花，不如雪中送炭。

人在春风得意的时候你帮他，他不一定会记得你。在别人有难的时候你给予了帮助，人家会记你一辈子的好。在你有困难的时候，人家也会同样帮助你，你的路才会越走越宽。比如人生中常常遇到的一些事，生病住院、红白喜事、天灾人祸等等，你的帮助、你的一声问候、甚至是一条短信，都会犹如春风水暖，彻底拉近彼此间的心理距离。kaobiguo.net

03. 记人好处

就是要常怀感恩之心。要知道，每一个人从出生到死亡，每一点进步、每一滴收获，都离不开父母、家人、朋友的帮助。永远记得别人的好，才能每天拥有阳光，每天都有朋友相伴，终生都有幸福相随；相反，总是记得别人的不是，只会苦了自己。

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