I once wanted to fetch back the share of my oder from my colleague and I collected the evidences the whole day. But as I collected more evidences, I found I might be the wrong one and the fact was not like what I thought about before. After a series of survey, it confirmed that the order belongs to my colleague.
Why I would fight against with my colleague? Because their group has cheated on our colleagues for many times. And once there are conflict s, we'll doubt that they cheat on us again and twist the truth. And we'll begin to search for evidences to testify and support our conclusion. But this is the wrong way to tackle with one unconfirmed thing. I treat them as bad guys no matter what happens and this behavior disturb my judgment.
I was tortured when I collected evidences today because the more I collected, the more regret I felt. Finally, I told my leader it was my fault and I gave up. The moment I spoke this out, I felt a lot more relaxed. And I was sure I made the right choice.
What a day it was.
It was a great lesson to me today.
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