The husband said to her wife: I am going out with my friends .She replied: OK
After a while their son said: mom I got my result for the mock exams and they aren't good.
The son expected to get a scolding from his mother,but to his surprise,his mother calmly said:OK if you work hard you will be able to do well.and if not,you will have to repeat the smester,it is up to you.
The next day her daughter came to her and hesitating said:mom,I smashed the car,the daughter was scared that the mother would get angry.but to her surprise, she said:OK,take it to the car shop and get it fixed.
A person who was usually irritated and grumpy was now suddenly changed, seeing such reactions,everyone got worried and thought something might be wrong.everyone came to her and asked is something wrong,why are you acting so calm?
She smiled and replied:it took me a long time to realize that each person is responsible for their own life. I realize that my anguish worrying anxiety stress, it doesn't solve your problems but aggravates mine.I have realized that I can only give you advice if you ask,but it depends on you to follow or not.Whatever decision you take it's consequences , good or bad you will have to live with them.I am not responsible for the actions of anyone .I realize that I can only control myself.My job is to care for you,love you ,encourage you,but after that,it all depends on you to solve your problems and find your own happiness.
Therefore I should remain calm and let each of you solve your problems yourself.
Everyone at home was speechless.From that day on,the family began to function better,because everyone in the house knew exactly what it was that they needed to do.
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