Inclusiveness

8包容不是宽容。包容是张开的手臂，接纳多样性，并且不断伸长胳膊，欢迎更多的可能性。包容的人，是热心的人，会照顾到每个人的感受；包容的人，是公平的人，不对他人乱做评价。TA 们，就是传说中“情商很高”的人。

本节课 Q 老师将带大家解读这类包容心强的人的特点，并给出如何与这类人打交道的建议。

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INCLUSIVENESS

"Stretch the circle wider." This is the philosophy around which you orient your life.

You want to include people and make them feel part of the group. In direct contrast to those who are drawn only to exclusive groups, you actively avoid those groups that exclude others. You want to expand the group so that as many people as possible can benefit from its support. You hate the sight of someone on the outside looking in. You want to draw them in so that they can feel the warmth of the group.

You are an instinctively accepting person. Regardless of race or sex or nationality or personality or faith, you（不乱下判断） cast few judgments. Judgments can hurt a person's feelings. Why do that if you don't have to? Your accepting nature does not necessarily rest on a belief that each of us is different and that one should respect these differences. Rather, it rests on(依赖于) your conviction that fundamentally we are all the same. We are all equally important. Thus, no one should be ignored. Each of us should be included. It is the least we all deserve.

How to manage a person strong in inclusiveness

- This person is interested in making everyone feel part of the team. 

- When you have group functions, ask him to make sure that every one is included. 

- Because he probably will not appreciate elite(精美的) products or services made for a select category of customer, position him to work on products or services that are designed with a broad market in mind. 

▍重点词汇

stretch: vt. 延伸；伸展

exclusive: adj. 排外的

accepting: adj. 容易接受的；包容的

rest on: 依赖于

▍生词好句

1. 表示“伸伸腿”：stretch our legs

2. 表示“在各个方面不断延展自己”：stretch yourself in different directions

3. 表示“扩大圈子”：stretch the circle

4. 表示“刚好相反”：in direct contrast to

5. 表示“从中获益”：benefit from

6. 表示“不乱下判断”：cast few judgements

7. 表示“不一定；不仅仅”：do not necessarily

▍补充例句

1. People are drawn to you.

2. They are drawn to you for suggestions.

3. How can we benefit from the / this experience?

4. How can we benefit from wasting our time doing nothing?

5. I'm not very accepting.

6. You don't necessarily to come.