to love, to live

dear audiences, can some one of you answer why you come to discovery? for beautiful girls, for handsome men or for some fun.

oh wait, let me tell you the story before you answering me.

once upon a time, there was a young widow, who lived with her young kid. she sustained their living by her bare hands, sewing all day and night. even in such a poverty, she still made up her mind to cultivated her young son into a great man.

she had kept this belief. until one day, she accidently witnessed her son fighting with other naughty boys, playing with dirt on ground. she was startled and lost in thinking through the night.

on the second day, she decided to move their house away from here.

when they just adapted to a new place and got long very well with their new neighbor, a smith. but her trouble coming again. she saw her young son imitating the smith ironning in the yard. she asked her son what he wanted to be when he grew up.

the son stared at his mom, joycely answered in innocence, mom i want to be the smith. when hearing this, the young mother took her son move to a new place as soon as possible.

they moved to a place where near a graveyard. the mother thought this might fade away her young son's wish to be a smith, ironing for the whole life. he meant to make a very big difference.

out of her expectation, the boy imitated crying men who went to the graveyard as they lost their beloved memebers.  the young mother can not blame her son as she knew her son knew nothing right or wrong.

then they moved their house again. this time, their new neighbor was a teacher. the teacher taught children reading loudly. when the young boy heared it, he imitated again. thus he started his way of education.

i believe all of you have already figured out who this young boy was. yes, this is young menfucious, through the three times moving house by his mother.

we all know how decisive the living environment could be to all of us. i can not stress more the importance of the living environmwnt. like micheal and melissa, why they can speak such fluent english, because they have had the advantage of learning everonment.

looking back, i memorised the very first day i got to know robby in the toastmaster meeting in 2015. i was surprised that such an old and bold middle aged man, with a poor english, but still insisted on learning english.  later one, this middle aged old driver told us i impressed hom with a very serious and bothering speech as well as myself.

it could be hard for you to imagine what a long face i had when i delivered speeches. relaxing and humor spared no trace on me.

gratefully and luckly, i was in the environment of toastmaster and be tourtured over and over again untill i got the secrate of making speeches.

do you want tp know why? that is the to lose face again and again and never mind if you were mocked on this tm stage as our fellow toastmasters could only give you warm and encouraging eyes and applauses.

so now you are at such a good learning and living environment, what are you waiting for?

pls to love the toastmaster and to live in the discovery.