多的都是你不知道的事，未来会怎样我们都无法预料，只是希望你扬帆起航，远走的那些路该留下的脚印一个也都不可能减少。
Many things you do not know, what the future will be we can not predict, just hope you set sail, go away those who leave the footprints of the road are impossible to reduce.
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美好生活在这里
总有一些姑娘，错误的本身并不在于你，但是别人却认为真的需要逃离躲开的是你，为什么？
很多人在恋爱的时候，确实都会遇到不同对手以及不同的各种戏码。对于男生的死缠烂打，我认为每个女生都应该经历过的吧。我曾经有很多次都被男生死缠烂打，纠缠打滚的那种戏码我见多了。通常会先掉眼泪，后下跪，然后不断的骚扰你一星期。当然，一星期之后或许他就又有了新的女朋友，所以，大可不必担心，最多也就一星期而已。
There are always some girls, the mistake itself is not you, but really need to escape escape is you, why?
A lot of people in love, it is true that will meet different opponents and different kinds of drama. I think every girl should have gone through this kind of thing. I have been a lot of boys have been dead tie rotten dozen, entanglement of the kind of drama I saw too much. They usually cry, then kneel, and then harass you for a week. Of course, he might have a new girlfriend in a week, so don't worry, it's only a week at most.
其实，你可以心平气和面对这些控制、指责、否定、挑剔、嫌弃、威胁等类型的人了，像个变态一样。
是的，我们要教你怎么心平气和面对被指责。心平气和不同于被压抑，而是一种神清气爽处之坦然的逼格很高的感觉。
温柔的真诚的心平气和版本：
我让你这么不满意，你还爱我吗？
如果我不按你的要求改，你会离开我吗？
如果他不会因此不爱你，那你怕啥。如果他因此而不爱你了，那你还改啥。
如果你觉得我改了你才舒服的话，那看看你是不是愿意给我更多的爱，让我愿意为你改变下，让你舒服。你要是愿意对我更好点的话，我可以考虑下为你改变。
一句话心平气和怼死人版本：
是啊，你对我好不满意哦，那怎么办哩？
虽然你对我不满意，但我还是不想改，怎么办哩？
我完蛋了，我觉得我有一个爱好。我好喜欢看你对我不满意，眼睛像金鱼一样圆鼓鼓地瞪出来，还不能把我怎么着的样子哎。怎么办哩？你眼睛里面布满了花纹一样的血丝，好好看哦。
这些的基础，又都是，你要学会问自己：
他指责我，是他的事。跟我有关系吗？
此刻，他就是对我不满意了啊。那又怎么了呢？
此刻，我需要让他满意吗？为什么需要或不需要呢？
无论你选择怎么做，看到真相，你可以做出属于自己的选择了。
In fact, you can control, blame, deny, criticize, dislike, threaten and other types of people in peace of mind, just like a pervert.
Yes, we're going to teach you how to face the music. Being calm is different from being depressed, but it is a feeling of high pretend bility where you feel refreshed and calm.
A gentle and sincere version of peace of mind:
Do you still love me when I've made you so unhappy?
Will you leave me if I don't change as you ask?
If it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, don't be afraid. If he doesn't love you because of it, then you should change nothing.
If you think I changed you to be comfortable, then see if you are willing to give me more love, let me be willing to change for you, let you comfortable. If you are willing to treat me better, I can consider changing it for you.
One calm and grudging version:
Yeah, you're not happy with me, so what are you going to do?
Although you are not satisfied with me, but I still do not want to change, how to do?
I'm screwed. I think I have a hobby. I like to see you are not satisfied with me, eyes like goldfish bulging out, can not put me how ah. What shall we do? Your eye inside was full of the blood silk like decorative pattern, very good-looking.
The foundation of all of this is that you have to learn to ask yourself:
He blamed me. It's his business. Does it matter to me?
Right now, he's just not happy with me. So what?
Now, do I need to satisfy him? Why or why not?
No matter what you choose to do, seeing the truth, you can make your own choice.
姑娘，你需要明白
能够忍受你脾气的人都是爱你的
包容自己实际上更为重要
这个世界从未充满过什么悲伤
谁还不是迎着太阳一路熬过来的
明天会到哪一站并不是谁都能够替你决定的
只是希望
你走过了别人所走过的路
希望你能够真正的拥护好你的那份天真喜悦
希望你能够清楚的拥抱住属于你自己的生活
Girl, you need to understand
Those who can bear your temper love you
Embracing yourself is actually more important
What sadness has this world never been filled with
Who is not against the sun all the way through
Not everyone can decide which station you will go to tomorrow
Just hope
You have walked the path of others
I hope you can truly embrace your innocent joy
I hope you can clearly embrace your own life
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