You’ve probably never thought about setting an intention for your conversations before. But here’s why it’s important to do it.
Your intention is your conversation plan. It doesn’t just keep your mind organized about the right questions to ask, it also determines who you talk to in social interaction. Vanessa herself always sets intentions for every social gathering she attends “I always do it in my car wherever I’m going,” she said.
Picture this:
If you have the intention of meeting a new business acquaintance, your interactions are going to be more intentional. You’ll meet people who fit the criteria for your intention, and you’ll be able to make good conversations with ease because you’ll know where to direct them.
If you’re looking for a significant other or you’re just hoping to make friends, then you’ll be looking at meeting people around your age.
The best thing about having an intention is that you’re just more confident about your moves. When you see someone who matches your criteria, it will be much easier to just start a conversation with them.
Before you walk into any social setting, set an intention. It doesn’t matter how small it is. Once you know what you’re looking for, you’re less confused and anxious.
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