2017-06-18 Osho DevaEkin神圣的单纯
属于人类层面的爱并不是真正的爱；它只是一种深层的冲动，想用别人的存在来填补自己，把别人放在你的零前面，这样你就变得有意义。一个单身女人什么感觉也没有，和她的丈夫在一起，看看那个女人——她和一个数字在一起，零和一个数字在一起。一个单身男性感到空虚，和一个女人在一起，他就有存在感。一个丈夫是重要人物，而一个单身汉什么也不是。
我们一直想方设法地寻找某些东西来阻碍这种空无的体验。
不，人类的爱并不是真正的爱。它只是一种欺骗的伎俩。真正的爱是某种超越人类的东西。真正的爱不是去填充内在的空间，正好相反，它是要分享自己内在的空间。你不要像个乞丐一样去寻找别人，而是要像个皇帝一样。你不是去乞讨，你是去分享。记住这两个字句。
如果你向别人乞求，那它就不是爱。如果你在分享，那它才是爱。在某种意义上，分享是超越人性的，但它也在人类的能力范围之内。分享是连结人性与神性的桥梁，所以爱成了连结人性与神性的桥梁。
所以不要试图找一个朋友、一个伴侣，找某个人来填充你内在的空间。不要这样，找某个人去分享。不要找一个数字——一，二，三——不要找一个数字。去找一个也像零一样的人。当两个零相遇，爱就发生。当两个空相会，爱就出现。
记住：当两个零相遇，并没有两个零——结果还是一个零。零加上零等于零——你可以继续增加无数多的零，但结果总是一个零，总数永远不会大于零。
当两个人消失，爱就存在。当爱人与被爱的人都消失，爱就出现。
那种爱具有永恒的质地。那种爱具有祈祷的品质。那种爱就是神。
摘自:四十二章经
The love that pertains to the human dimension is not really love; it is just a deep urge to fill oneself with the other's being, to put somebody else in front of your zero so you become meaningful. A woman alone feels nothing; moving with the husband, see the woman -- she is moving with a figure, the zero is moving with a figure.
A man alone feels empty; moving with a woman he feels somebody. A husband is somebody! A bachelor is nobody.
We go on finding somehow, with something, to block this experience of nothingness.
No, human love is not really love. It is just a trick to deceive. The real love is something beyond human. And the real love is something which has nothing to do with filling the inner space -- just the contrary. It has something to do with sharing the inner space. You don't go like a beggar to the other; you go like an emperor.
You don't go to beg; you go to share. And remember these two words. If you are begging something from somebody, then it is not love. If you are sharing, then it is love.
Sharing is in a way beyond human beings, and yet in a way within human capacity. Sharing is the bridge which joins the human to the Divine. That's why love is the bridge which joins the human to the Divine.
So don't try to find a friend, a girlfriend, somebody to fill your inner space. No. Find someone to share with. Don't find a figure -- one, two, three -- don't find a figure. Find somebody who is also like a zero.
When two zeros meet, there is love. When two emptinesses meet, there is love. And remember: when two zeros meet, there are not two zeros -- there is only one zero. Zero plus zero plus zero -- you can go on putting as many zeros as you want, but it always comes to one zero.
The total is never more than one zero.
But only when you completely disappear and two are not two and a non-duality exists, and the personalities are no more clashing, personalities have been dropped -- then love happens. That love has the quality of timelessness.
That love has the quality of prayer. That love is God.
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