Sex and City

I've been watching sex and city lately, four single ladies, smart ,independent,grown,career...i personaly think it is worth to take a shot for us girls...in this serial, i very appreciate the girls on one point . they could separate desire and emontion so damn well. Sex is just sex ,they know what they want and enjoy their desire...as for me , clearly i didnt get that level,if i have to sex , then must be with a guy whom im faling for.i couldnt separate desire and emotion, maybe would never ever reach that level...to mIany people, it is pathetic that cant enjoy life. i barely get that desire or maybe it is not evoked...but it doesnt matter, i still enjoy my life.. who said no desire no enjoyment,i know how i feel, i know what i want and dont want, im honest to myself, i enjoy my life, this is the point...but there is a question i got to think.. if this situation in our country today, still would be considered horrible thing, even many girls themselves would feel shame , the questions are why? what cause or what factors involved...well, thats a huge topic to figure out... it must refer to culture, value, education, persionality ...something like this... another thing i learnt from the serial,we should know how to communicate and be honest to express our own thoughts, here im not saying social communicate, im trying to say once you got problem in friendship,relationship, family , the best way is to talk, to express what in your mind , let people know what is it...of course with a rational, nice and respectful attitufe... and sometiome you also know when it is good timing  to spilt it out....and in this respect, i guess i already get evolved long time ago...