On love at first sight
It’s quite romantic that the lovers fall in love at their first sight.but In my mind ,falling love is a short and quick thing but doing love needs efforts.
Firstly,love at first sight means you see outside of a person rather than inside. For the first meeting ,you have the general ideas of a person’s advantages most of the time .but to get along with others means you need to solve with the shortages of a person.
Secondly ,love at first sight means a short feelings. You are easily to have the feelings if a person act warmly and kindly. For example ,the girls always have a lot of idols.
So to change the short love into a longtime romantic thing, you need to do a lot of efforts.
[if !supportLists]1. [endif]choose to spend more time with the real person. This means you need to use different ways to get to know each other more. You can get the answers by asking opening questions or chatting chores or talking about hobbies ,etc. You can make your own judge by observing the one’s attitudes or actions. To Spend more time with the real person helps you know each other better.
[if !supportLists]2. [endif]Find a way that can balance the advantages and disadvantages. No one is perfect. So how to make a balance becomes significant.you can choose to expand the good and miss the bad;or you can choose to communicate with the other ,then you two can find a proper way of happy. The most important thing is that you are glad in this situation.
[if !supportLists]3. [endif]Give the other more space. Everyone is unique. You can’t control the other ,so let both have a space to realize yourself,which means that keep high sight in your emotion and action ,and adjust yourself in time.
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