Do Parents Matter? Why Japanese Babies Sleep Soundly, Maxican Siblings Don’t fight and American Families Should Just Relax.
——家长有用吗？为什么日本宝宝睡得香，墨西哥宝宝不打架，而美国家庭就该放轻松。
据介绍这是一对人类学家夫妇的学术专著。让我很感兴趣，但没找到书。查了一圈，暂时只有英文版，没有中译版。
如果如介绍所言，结论就是“家长并没什么大用”，因为孩子自有其天性，并不能被家长改变。那家长所有与孩子自主性相冲突的“管教”，实属有害无益了。
不如诚肯点，需要支持孩子时，要么痛快满足孩子，要么带领孩子寻找有效方案；需要拒绝孩子时，就站在“你造成我不适，我就会拒绝，并且一定坚持拒绝成功”的立足点上，去拒绝孩子的不当行为。如此避免亲子内耗，才容易真正帮助孩子在发展天性的路上也形成言行得体的好习惯。
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