Maybe some people's lives are meant to be enjoying living, while the others' are designed for learning, coping with difficulties and living without getting what they want, like mine.
Maybe the marriage means completely different for you and me. Maybe I've seen too many English movies, that I deeply believe that marriage is about meeting your commitment. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish, 'till death do us apart. Marriage is about letting someone walk into your life, becoming your constant friend and your faithful partner to cry and to laugh with. It is a promise of trusting and respecting the other person, loving faithfully through good times and bad, regardless of the obstacles we may face together. To give your hand, your heart, and your love as long as we both shall live.
For me, I chose you as my best friend for life. I chose you to embark upon this great journey of marriage with me. I take you as my soulmate and companion. I take you, to be my husband, my partner, my friend, my confidant. I believed that we could accomplish anything together. I believed that we would be better than we could be alone. I believed that our love would grow into a bond too strong to break.
But now, I am not sure if you understand marriage the same way as I do. If the marriage means anything different for you from a relationship. The bond between us just seems to be so vulnerable. I am not sure if you will always stay by my side or just walk away. Maybe these commitments and these responsibilities mean too much pressure for you. And you just have not thought everything through before you decided to marry me.
The only thing I am sure about is you wanted me and you wanted to be with me at that moment, when you made your decision. You didn't know if you were ready, but you wanted to give a try.
Now, we are going through a tough time, facing the difficulties which pushed you to your edge. It is the time for me to keep my words. I want you to always know that I will be by your side through the good and bad, and I will be there for you in the ups and downs of life. I am always here for you.
No matter what I do, no matter what I say, maybe I've hurt you by accident. But just trust me, I absolutely have no intention to break your heart, 'cause I love you, and will always love you.
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