Only
when I start to be indifferent to you will you feel that I am always
good at everything you have. My energy is just as much as you are, just
very limited. In the world of adults, it should be decisive and simple.
It does not delay anyone, does not consume anyone, and does not waste
anyone. This is kindness.。
有的人就是内心温暖，表面也是对谁都这么贴心的那种，实际上真的会是那样吗？我以前有参加过朋友聚会，就是那种一大堆人其中一个人也不认识，唯一的认识的那个人去的晚了，开门一瞬间我就感觉我得到了解放。碰到陌生人的尴尬打招呼我也只好演戏，没办法啊我跟你又不是很熟悉。有的人就是这样，他对你的好都会藏到他的眼睛里，每个人都有自己独特的感情围墙，毕竟一生漫长真正陪伴你成长的又有几个。最近大家一定都被高迪和大美的分手事件给感动了吧。其实我对他们不了解，但是大美说的对，千万不要陪伴男孩子长大，大美陪伴了五年换来了分手的结局。其实跟我是一样的，我当年也是20岁时候谈了个不想分手的恋爱到了25岁竟然莫名其妙就各奔东西最后又变成单身狗了。哈哈哈哈哈。这是一个励志的故事。把自己有限的精力留给值得的人。
Some
people are warm inside, and the surface is also so intimate to
everyone. Is it really like that? I used to participate in a friend
gathering, that is, a lot of people did not know one of them. The only
person who knew it was late. When I opened the door, I felt that I was
liberated. I met my stranger and said that I had to act. No way, I am
not very familiar with you. Some people are like this. His good for you
will be hidden in his eyes. Everyone has their own unique wall of
feelings. After all, there are several people who have really grown up
with you for a long time. Recently, everyone must have been touched by
the event of the breakup between Gaudí and Damei. In fact, I don't know
about them, but Damei said yes, don't accompany the boys to grow up, and
Damei accompanied them for five years in exchange for the ending of the
breakup. In fact, it is the same as me. When I was 20 years old, I
talked about a love that I didn't want to break up. At the age of 25, I
was inexplicably rushed to each other and finally became a single dog.
Hahahahaha. This is an inspirational story. Leave your limited energy to
the worthy people.。
日常又肯定好不了某些朋友听说你是业内圈子少有名气，多少都会来找你帮忙，因为大家又很熟悉又刚好凑巧需要就肯定乐意帮忙，但是总会有些不太熟悉的朋友就会上门找你帮忙你又不好推脱谈钱对方又不肯买单那种，所以，可能真的是慢慢就明白了圈子不同别硬融的道理。
Everyday,
I am sure that some friends have heard that you are a rare name in the
industry circle. How many will come to you for help, because everyone is
very familiar and just happens to be willing to help, but there will
always be some unfamiliar friends. When you come to the door to find you
to help you, it’s hard to push away the money and the other party
refuses to pay the bill. So, it’s really a matter of slowly
understanding the difference between the different circles.。
还想起以前拍戏在片场的那些日子里，总会有人在开机前化妆间或者是试衣间走廊各种的趁机交友毕竟都是些小角色万一哪天出名了呢，各种互加好友做些小兼职通过后点开对方好友圈全部都是这个明星那个明星的剧场合作过的拍过的一些剧照认识的不认识的大概也都是些十八线外没人熟悉的演员也就是他眼中的一手人脉。就在突然某天竟然开口问我借钱，当然了又不熟悉怎么可能会借。所以，别说你的好友千千万，又有何用呢？每个人都是一座孤独的城堡呢，可能一生会遇见270000人，但是最终陪你走到最后的也不过十位数。
I
also remembered that in those days when the filming was on the set,
there would always be people in the dressing room before the boot or in
the fitting room. All kinds of downtime friends are all small
characters. If they are famous, they will make some small friends. After
the part-time pass, the other friends’ circle is all the stars. The
star’s theater has cooperated with some of the stills. Some of the
actor’s unknown actor is also the one in his eyes. People. Just suddenly
one day I actually asked me to borrow money, of course, I am not
familiar with how I might borrow. So, let alone your friends, what is
the use? Everyone is a lonely castle. It may meet 270,000 people in a
lifetime, but in the end, it will be ten digits with you.
我们很多时候都是对待这个世界太热情，根本没有人告诉你怎样去学会拒绝。人人都注重自己的面子工程，一旦你拒绝了对方就认为你是自私鬼就会认为你很怪物，没办法啊谁也不喜欢，谁也不想出圈。其实学会了拒绝学会了冷漠也就是学会了去针对性的热情。毕竟时间有限，余生也很贵，就不要再去铺张浪费了。你是什么货色，我就是什么脸色。也希望你最好不要从别人嘴里认识我。也很感激你用心听我的故事。
We
are often too passionate about the world, and no one tells you how to
learn to refuse. Everyone pays attention to their face project. Once you
reject the other person, you think that you are a selfish ghost. You
will think that you are a monster. No way, no one likes it. No one wants
to go out. In fact, learning to refuse to learn to be indifferent is to
learn to target enthusiasm. After all, time is limited, and the rest of
the life is very expensive, so don't waste extravagance. What kind of
goods are you, what is my face? I also hope that you do not know me from
someone else's mouth. I am also very grateful to you for listening to
my story.。
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