One of the most common causes of low motivation is saying yes to competing motivations.
As we’ve talked about, motivation is energy. When you’re full of energy you feel motivated. And when your energy tank is empty, motivation disappears.
Well, you can’t expect to have high levels of motivation for the things that matter most to you if you’re wasting all your energy on things that don’t really matter:
- How can you possibly have the motivation to say yes to that new hobby or side project when you say yes to 2 hours of Netflix every evening?
- How can you possibly make progress on your personal initiative at work if you’re always saying yes to other people’s requests for your time?
- How can you possibly find quality time to spend with your partner if you say yes to every social event you get invited to?
You have plenty of motivation. Stop wasting it on things that don’t really matter.
Motivation is largely a matter of priorities:
- If that new business idea is really a priority, you would say no to your buddy’s Super Bowl party and spend an entire Sunday writing a business plan.
- If your marriage is really a priority, you would say no to poker night with the boys and plan a date night.
- If your health was really a priority, you would say no to the comforts of sleeping in and get to the gym first thing.
You only have so much energy each day. If you waste it on unimportant things, you won’t have enough left to do what matters most.
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