422今天，真诚的说出一句“谢谢”！

题目：今天，真诚的说出一句“谢谢”！

Why don't we ask for the things that we need?

Why wouldn't I say:"would you praise me ?"

——because I am giving your data about me,I am telling you where I am insecure,I am telling you where I need your help.

我为什么说不出：我想要赞美呢？

——因为我正告诉你我的关键核心，我不安全，需要你的帮助。

I am treating your like the circle but like you are the enemy,because what can you do with that data ?

——you could neglect me ,you could abuse it or you could actually meet my need.

我待你如核心使得你成为了我的敌人，你怎样处理这信息呢？

——你可能忽视，可能滥用，但是你也可以满足我。

tip：内心的不安全感使我们在需要别人赞美的时候选择了沉默，真诚面对心底需要的赞美吧，同时也给这个世界释放一点善意。