2018年快结束的那最后几个月里，我对人生（前半生和后半生）作了深度思考：思考了生命的本质、价值和意义；思考了我应该如何衡量我的人生：工作，生活，学习和写作。
写下了几万字的思想稿，并在其中把有关人生的一点思考粗糙地整理到了以下这几篇文章中：
《三观的树立方式》
《乒乓爱好之多种玩法》
《思维方法》
《每日4+1问理念》
《大脑＝数据库》
《把自己作为一段代码看世界》
《做事态度和方法》
《有效沟通的理解》
《教育观念100条》
《谈改变命运》
《人人都应该是自己人生的导演》
《我为自己写墓志铭》等
同时给自己的人生立定了很多条条框框（搭建了基础框架）。涉及工作，生活，学习和写作（用“记录”比较恰当，毕竟不是作家，目前肯定不是，未来的30年内可能也还不是。人活着总要有点梦想吧！），非常严谨，非常苛刻，很多条条框框是很难做到，但还是给自己立下了。
这一年我刚满30周岁，经常听到、看到“三十而立”的说法，我为自己的下半生“立”下了这么多条条框框（并且自认为这些是可以用来传家的“宝贝”）是我对“三十而立”的“立”的理解，我三十，我立了，我立下了！
人们所说的“三十而立”，成家立业，那我也“三十而立”了，已经结了婚，也有一份待遇还不错的工作，同时还在奋斗中的城市——深圳，在今年里坎坷中买下了房，即使房子小的可怜，还是二手的，但终究还是买下了，顺理成章，成了月光房奴一族，还欠下了两屁股的债（我老婆和我向亲戚朋友们借了不少钱）。
写到这不得不表达下心情，真心感谢信任我，支持我，鼓励我，借我钱的亲人们，朋友们，谢谢你们！30岁之前遇见了你们，真好！
在30以后的岁月里，我将遵照我而立之年立下的条条框框（在自己搭的框架里），努力活着。
（昨晚我老婆给我看了一段“把握当下”的视频。的确，我们都不知道意外什么时候会来，来还是不来，怎么来。）
唯有努力健康的活着，把握当下，才是人生真理！
In the last few months of 2018, I made a deep thought on life (first half and the second half): thinking about the nature, value and meaning of life; thinking about how I should measure my life: work, life , learning and writing.
I wrote a tens of thousands of words of thought draft, and in which I put a little bit of thinking about life into the following articles:
"The Way of Establishing the Three Views"
"Multiple ways to play table tennis hobbies"
"Thinking Method"
"Daily 4+1 Questions"
" Brain = Database"
"Looking at the world as a piece of code"
"Working attitudes and methods"
" Understanding of Effective Communication"
"100 Educational Concepts"
"Talk about changing destiny"
"Everyone should be the director of their own life"
"I write an epitaph for myself", etc.
At the same time, I have set a lot of rules for my life (built the basic framework). It involves work, life, study and writing. (It is more appropriate to use "records". After all, it is not a writer. It is certainly not at the moment. It may not be in the next 30 years. People always have a dream when they live!", very strict, very demanding, many The rules and regulations are hard to do, but I still set myself up.
I have just turned 30 in this year, and I often hear and see the saying of "Thirty Stands". I have "settled" so many rules for my second half of life (and think that these can be used to pass the family). Baby") is my understanding of the "standing" of "Thirty Stands". I am thirty, I am standing, I have set it!
People say "Thirty-year-old", and get married, then I am also "30", and I am married, and I have a job that is well-paid, and I am still struggling in the city - Shenzhen, this year. I bought a house in the rough, even if the house was small and poor, but it was second-hand, but after all, I bought it. It became a family of moonlight house slaves, and I still owe two debts (my wife and I to relatives and friends). Borrowed a lot of money).
I have to express my feelings, thank you for trusting me, support me, encourage me, my friends who borrow money, friends, thank you! It’s great to meet you before the age of 30!
In the years after 30, I will follow the rules and regulations set by me (in my own frame) and work hard.
(My wife showed me a video of "Keeping the moment" last night. Indeed, we don't know when the accident will come, come or not, how come.)
Only by striving for a healthy life and grasping the present is the truth of life!
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