莫生气

我不是为了生气而种兰花的。我不是为了生气而工作的。我不是为了生气而教书的。我不是为了生气而交朋友的。我不是为了生气而生儿育女的。A little pot is soon hot. 壶小易热，量小易怒。 善用威者不轻怒，善用恩者不妄施。太阳光大、父母恩大、君子量大、小人气大。生气是无能的表现！Getting angry is punishing oneself for mistakes of others. Forgive others, and relieve yourself. 生气，就是拿别人的过错来惩罚自己。原谅别人，放过自己。原谅别人，就是善待自己。静坐常思己过，闲谈莫论人非。能受苦乃为志士，肯吃亏不是痴人，敬君子方显有德。看别人不顺眼，是自己修养不够。有才而性缓实属大才，有智而气和斯为大智。Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.                                                                    --Buddha

无法克制愤怒的人就像用手里抓着的滚烫煤块试图去攻击其他人，但最后灼伤的却是自己。                                                  --释迦摩尼

For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness."                                                                      -–Ralph Waldo Emerson

每生1分钟的气，你就损失了60秒的幸福。"                                      --拉尔夫·瓦尔多·爱默生

Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured. 愤怒是一种酸，它对储存它的容器的伤害大于它对任何接触它的物体的伤害。              ——马克·吐温

Anybody can become angry — that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not within everybody's power and is not easy.                                                  --Aristole

产生愤怒，这很简单。但有谁可以保证自己能做到生气时不迁怒、不过度、正合时宜、有理有据又不会一时冲动做出什么傻事呢？这可不是件容易事。"                  --亚里士多德

So other people hurt me? That's their problem. Their character and actions are not mine. What is done to me is ordained by nature and what I do by my own.When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they can't tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own –not of the same blood or birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me.                                                            --Marcus Aurelius

如果有人伤害了我？那可是他们的问题。他们的性格和行为和我毫无干系。我所遭受的一切都是上帝的旨意和我自己的因果。当你早晨醒来的时候，告诉自己：我今天将碰见的人里，会有多管闲事的，会有忘恩负义的，会有傲慢无礼的，会有虚伪的，会有善妒的，还会有乖戾的。他们之所以会变成这个样子都是由于他们善恶不分。但我和他们不同，我领略过善之大成，也讨教过恶之丑陋，而且我已认识到，这些多行不义之人与我同本同源--我指的并非血缘或出身上的相同，而是指我们生来本拥有一样纯净的灵魂，却逐渐在生活的旅程中分出了高下。这就是为何他们的所作所为并不能伤害到我。                                              --马可·奥里利乌斯