因为一句话，前两天跟媳妇吵了一架，吵的挺凶的。回想起来原因还是自己修养不够，很自责，这两天一直想起“修身、齐家、治国、平天下”的至理名言。
我想古人将人生经验浓缩成几个字，原因可能是当时使用竹简，刻字不易吧。技术发展，当印刷术发达后，出现了小说。好的小说可以写的很详细，让短暂的人生，进行了拓展。然而，因小说可以写的随意，又让人失去了对经典的敬畏，也是有利有弊吧！《镜花缘》作者说：自己写来原觉口吻生花，他人看来亦不过拈花一笑。这是小说这种体裁决定的，大约所有的小说作者亦有同感吧！
相同意思的话，西方的一个无名墓碑上也写过，他们写的让人更易理解，因其写在墓碑上，让人不禁唏嘘：
When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world.As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it, too, seemed immovable.If I had only changed myself first, then by example I would have changed my family. From their aspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country, and who knows, I may have even changed the world.
“没有亲身经历，很难写出马鞍之微”。不写文字不知道，自己试着去写的时候才发现，文字随意组合虽有千变万化，组成文章却是作者呕心所致，但对他人，也只是纸上得来，终觉浅罢了。生活的各种酸甜苦辣，还是需要自身去经验，往往经验后，已经晚了，落得在墓志铭上浓缩出短短的感悟，真是悲哀。
人生苦短譬如朝露，多读书，少走些弯路吧！
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