Parents must lower their demands on their children,if there's demand there will be expectations,if you have expectations you will have emotions,and if you hv emotions you'll easily lose control,then everyone can get hurt.
Parents must remember that our mission is to raise children to adults,not talents. success depends on the chance of a child six points of talent,three points of luck and one point of help from noble people.you need the right time and place not your wishful thinking.
We have made a lot of efforts for our children to give them supports,but whether we want to admit it or not,these efforts are often unrewarded in the face of reality.sucess isn't like mathematics,1plus 1 always equals two,but like writing an essay,this teacher will give you 50 points and another teacher may only give you 30 points.if you don't believe it,pls look at your life,the current appearance may not be your original intention,if you really have the ability to create success,your life is no longer like this.
We don't even have the ability to manage our own life,well how can we get the courage and confidence to manage our children's life well.maybe the more you don't point fingers at your children,the easier it is for them to succeed.our ceilings are so low,we inadvertently become obstacles to children's growth,look around and see how many successful people succeed by listening to their parents.
A transparent parent has three truths:no expectations courageous and efforts and no results.
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