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Business network:
- Find a gatekeeper, who protect the actual person you want to meet. (google their personal assiants) Be extra nice to the gatekeeper, as much as you admire that person.
- Research what that person is doing before your meeting. Know the common ground&common enemy!
ASSETS, CASH FLOW, & TRACK RECORDS:
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- No Magical Asset: (Need more explaination from Tai) Probabaly from raising capital and cash flow
- Cash Flow: low/no/negative cash flow usually profit you less
- Track Record: history tells a story
- Flexibility: Be open-minded, embrace new idea(if it confronts you, say,'I never thought this before, can you explain how?')
- Fast Learning:
- Be like a baby, pretend you don't know about it. Absolutely no ego if you want to learn fast.
- Don't trust your judgment, trust reality.
- Richard Dawkins: The organism that only learns from trial and error, usually dies. Learn from the mistakes made by other people.
- Forming New Habits:
- Exercise your body&your mind
- Change your environment. Bad environment is like a disease.
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SMART READING STEP TWO
Q : What are 5 - 10 books you think should be on your top 150 books?A : Steven Johnson--Where good ideas come from Richard Dawkins--The selfish Gene H.W. Charles--The Money Code Dale Carnegie--How to win friends & influence people Wang xiao bo--My mental paradise
SMART READING STEP THREE
- Q : What is the greatest classic book that you have read or heard about?A : A tale of two cities-Charles Dickens
- Q : What is the best biography that you have ever read or heard about?A : The Road to Happiness-Bertrand Rusell
- Q : What is the best how-to book that you have ever read or heard about?A : How to win Friend and influence people-Dale Carnegie
SMART READING STEP FOUR
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- Q : How many minutes are you going to read every day?A : 60mins/15mins
- Q : What is your biggest problem sleeping, and do you think reading a biography at night will help you?A : Keep raising radomn thought happened in the day
- Q : Are you going to try the nap technique, and how many minutes does it take you to fall asleep?A : yes.1hour
HOW TO MAKE DECISIONS THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPIER
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- Q : Tell me one area where you're too picky and one where you're more easily satisfied. What are you going to do to bring that satisficer mindset to the area you're not happy with?A : picky:marriage,career,wealth; satisficer: grade, friendship
- What you need to do in life is to have standards. But the higher your standards are, the harder you can achieve it. Good enough is perfect.
- Try to take your satisficer mentality into the the domain where you're picky.
THE MOST IMPORTANT SKILL YOU CAN HAVE TO SOLVE YOUR BIGGEST PROBLEMS
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This VIP training is the most important thing!
Deep work: focus, without distraction, in doing important thing with high cognitive loading.
How can you be focusing.
- Be OK with being bored: It allows good thoughts to drop in your head. Bored makes you open to new idea.
- Use the Pomodoro Method: For tasks only, such as writing email/coding,etc
- Learn productive meditation: Walk for a while, seat for a while. Just try to solve the problem without any outside help.
HOW TO NOT LOSE HEART
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- Don't lose your heart
- Keep Attacking/Believe you will recover
- Focus attacking/perfectionist in specific/cutting out odds
- Q : 3 part question. A. What's an area where you have lost heart due to a past failure? B. What you should start attacking. and C. How you can focus on it and what you'll cut out.A :
- Losing friends;BY reading&implementing How to win friends&influence other people;focusing on be genuinely interested in other people and keep away from awful people.
4 REASONS YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE
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- 1, Polygenes controls your personality. Those genes could be turn on and off for random reason or survival attribute or conditional adoption.
- Become less judgmental.
- Be more forgiving of yourself.
- Change one area aspect that negatively affects you, just a little bit.
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