06/Feb 《Principles》Part II - Life Principle Chapter 4 (Page 193-220)
Chapter 4: Understand That People Are Wired Very Differently
Summary:
- Based on Neuroscience, every and all individual has different Neuro and wires between all of them. Leading the behaviour or thinking of different people are totally different!
- Understand and be aware difference among people.
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Getting right people in the right roles in support of your goal is the key to succeeding in whatever you choose to accomplish.
Different Brain
Reading notes / understanding:
- 每一个个体的大脑的不同,造就了不同的想法世界观等等。有一个心理学的说法,我们每时每刻所接受的数据如果是200Mbits/second, 大脑能接受的就只能有 134bit/second. 没错,百万分之一都不到,首先我们接受理解事物的不同,加上大脑不同的处理能力,更加早就了每个人看待事情的不一致!
Our difference weren't a product of poor communication; it was the other way around. Our difference ways of thinking led to our poor communications!
- Chapter 3 讲到要Radical open-mindedness, 当理解了这一章讲到每个人的差异,就需要更加的开放与包容。当你听到不一样的意见时候,就应该觉得很正常,从基因、大脑构造上就应该想法不一致,不是吗?😝
- 如何去判断周围的人的特点呢?Ray给了好几个建议的模型:MBTI,Baseball Card,Workplace Personality Inventory, Team Dimensions Profile and Stratified System Theory. 👍 Find out what you and others are like
- 最后Ray 建议,在一个合作共赢的时代,认清自己,同时非常重要的是认清别人的特点,借用王煜全老师常说的一句话:要和别人积木式创新,用多方的长版做成一个更大的木桶!
P.S. Shaper = Visionary + Pratical Thinker + Determined
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