读书随笔353——《Bioenergetics》281

Distant eyes indicate the person is far away, off somewhere. We can bring him back by gaining his attention. His return coincides with the contact established between his eyes and our own as he looks at us and his eyes focus on us.

我有的时候会在特殊儿童那里感受到这双眼睛离我很远很远，他们在第一座冰山。我会用很大的力气，带着他们回来。有的是需要味觉-海苔；有的需要触觉-娃娃；有的需要听觉-音乐；有的视觉-写字…每一个开放的感官，都有可能带他们回来…“TA的回归，恰逢TA的眼睛和我自己之间的接触TA看着我们，TA的眼睛盯着我们”Lowen的这句话说的我很感动…

Appealing-"Please love me."

Longing-"I want to love you."

Watchful-"What are you going to do?"

Distrustful--"I can't open to you."

Erotic- "I am excited by you."

Hateful-"I hate you."

Confused-"I don't understand."

眼神所传达的力量，我在想如果我们能传达上面，也可以传达爱，传达欣赏……

they are an organ of vision and also of contact.

它们是视觉器官和接触的器官。

我越来越多的理解了这句话，当我们运用了1/6的窗口看这个世界的时候，我们就已经接触了这个世界。我们可以感知这个世界，我们也通过它来接触每一个人的世界。在我所接触的50眼睛的时候，我知道，我运用了它的接触，而此前，我只运用了它是一对儿视觉器。眼睛也是一个宇宙。