生活中，人人都有过馈赠他人和接受馈赠的经历，通过馈赠他人的行为，可以看出一个人的性格。
馈赠本来是无偿地送自己认为好的东西给别人，表达自己的好意，体现的是诚意。但有的馈赠却适得其反，受赠者感受到的不是好意和诚意，因为馈赠者在排序时，把自己放在前面，受赠者排到后面。
我家有一个弟一个妹，我们小的时候，只有父亲一个人上班，经济虽不困难，但也不宽余，所以邻居王阿姨就把炼猪油的油渣送给我们家吃，当时我们小不懂，父母也没有这个常识，觉得好吃，我们长大了才知道油渣容易致癌，一般人都不吃，但王阿姨的丈夫是医生，他肯定是知道的，因此他们不吃。这样的馈赠让我想起就觉得心里不爽。
所以每当我赠送别人东西的时候，我一定会挑选质量好的给别人，品相差一些的留给自己，否则就不送，更不会把自己认为不好的东西送给别人，这应该是基本的以诚相待吧。
Everyone in life has had the experience of giving and receiving gifts. Through the act of giving to others, you can see a person's personality.
Gifts are supposed to give what they think are good to others free of charge, expressing their good intentions, and embodying sincerity. But some gifts are counterproductive. The recipient does not feel good intentions and sincerity, because when sorting, the giver puts himself in the front and the recipient ranks behind.
There was a younger brother and a sister in my family. When we were young, only our father worked alone. Although the economy was not difficult, it was not lenient. Therefore, the neighbor Aunt Wang gave us the oil residue of lard. At that time, we didn't understand, and our parents did not have this common sense. We felt delicious. When we grew up, we knew that oil residue was prone to carcinogenic. Ordinary people don't eat, but Aunt Wong's husband is a doctor. He must know, so they don't eat. I feel uncomfortable when I think of such gifts.
So whenever I give something to others, I will definitely choose something the good quality for others, leaving something different to myself, otherwise I won't give it to others what I think is bad, which should be basically honest.
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