想象一下

唉，最近在批改作文的时候也发现了一些同学写的作文虽然非常好，但是跟所处的阶段并不是相匹配，所以为什么大家想一想就知道了，也许他是请教了高年级的同学帮忙写吧，因为写出来的文章水平并不像他之前考试所表达出来的，比如说这篇作文你会觉得像是一个高中的。水平吗？我觉得并不像。
Second, comfort him. Imagine how you would treat that child if it were your own. Will you tell him that the quarrel between your parents is their own problem, not your fault; will you hug him tightly and say to him "I know you are lonely, let's play with you, okay"; He pulled to the kitchen and brought him the hot meal he had just made. These behaviors are actually compensation for the lack of childhood, and they are the needs of the inner child. This seemingly naive behavior is actually very necessary. Finally, be with him. Accompanying means never leaving, and it also means tolerance. When you see your inner child, you will find that he also makes mistakes. He is vulnerable and sensitive when facing others. Sometimes he is lazy, sometimes tired, and sometimes he sets goals, but he can’t achieve them anyway. . At this time, it's good to be with him. Do not accuse, let alone force. Slow down and wait for him to slowly gain strength and self-integration.