晚上看了一部1994年的美国电影《当男人爱上女人》，电影的出产日期距今28年，片子久闻大名却一直没有机会看，看前以为只一部美式浪漫爱情片，看完后心里五味杂陈，这不就是现代所说的相爱相杀吗？为了掩饰自己的不完美、甚至是不体面，不惜将过失推到自己的爱人身上……这让我想到另一部美国名片《蝴蝶梦》。两部片子造假者都是女主人公，不同的是《当男人爱上女人》的艾丽丝最后坦诚地面对了自己的心，而后者却是至死都没有诚实地面对自心，并给深爱自己的另一半带来无尽的伤痛，如果不是有幸再遇良缘，《蝴蝶梦》中的男主人公的后半生将活在无尽的孤独中……
这样以占有为目的爱，真的颇让人为人性而感到悲哀，所以爱情如果不具足一颗纯良的心，实在不值得向往，这大概是真爱可遇不可求的真正原因所在吧。
年轻时听《When a Man Loves a Woman》，记住了Machael Bolton，今天再听，就很难忘记Andy Garcia……
When a man loves a woman
Can't keep his mind on nothing else
He’d trade the world
For a good thing he’s found
If she is bad, he can't see it
She can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend
If he puts her down
When a man loves a woman
Spend his very last dime
Trying to hold on to what he needs
He'd give up all his comforts
And sleep out in the rain
If she said that's the way
It ought to be
When a man loves a woman
I give you everything I've got
Trying to hold on
To your precious love
Baby, baby please don’t treat me bad
When a man loves a woman
Deep down in his soul
She can bring him such misery
If she is playing him for a fool
He's the last one to know
Loving eyes can never see
Yes! When a man loves a woman
I know exactly how he feels
‘Cause baby, baby, baby
When a man loves a woman
When a man loves a woman
When a man loves a woman
When a man, when a man, when a man loves a woman ...
近日上海情况很紧张，浦东尤甚，所在小区已经第８天封闭状态，近日新增无症状感染者更是破千，昨天小区群内组织的一批从蔬菜基地直供的青菜，今天下午退款了。据说该蔬菜基地被当地政府接管，今天下午不让对外发货了，订的7斤１份的青菜也就泡了汤，只弄了一把菠菜回来，虽然少点，但聊胜于无，等着政府直供配送吧。
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