恋爱、结婚、生育

Falling in love, getting married and giving birth are three different things:

Many people will regard love, marriage and childbearing as the same thing. Love means marriage, and marriage means childbearing

But I think love, marriage and childbirth are three completely different things, love does not necessarily have to get married, marriage does not necessarily have to give birth, each of these choices represents a life style, your choice determines your life style in the future, so you can choose the life style you want

What about love, marriage and childbirth?

Love should be the happiest thing among the three things, it will let you enjoy the heart, sweet, happy, company time, I also think the purpose of love is to experience the good happy time, get a good life experience, rather than get married, if two people together have a marriage plan, then they can choose to get married

Marriage is two people don't want to end a wonderful relationship, want to experience the next life together, and decided to use a ritual "under the" when it is different from the love of liberty is no bondage, marriage with complex social and economic relations, but also bear legal responsibility and obligation, but marriage does not necessarily have to have

Having children should be a natural decision made by both parties in the course of a good marital life after having a great romantic and marital relationship

So marriage smoke and birth is never a causal relationship, not because you get married, so you have to have children, but because you get married, and marriage smoke is very happy, so one day both parties decided to bring a little life into their lives.

As a woman, before childbirth must understand the cost of childbirth and parenting costs, if you feel that the current marriage smoke is not suitable for children, then you have the right not to have children, childbirth is one of the rights of women, so please be sure to use it carefully.

But as a woman must also strive to achieve economic and spiritual independence, only become an independent person, your marriage cigarettes will not be required to bear children as an additional condition, you can freely choose the lifestyle you want, the fate in their own hands.

恋爱、结婚、生育是三件不同的事：

很多人都会把恋爱、结婚、生育看做是同一件事，恋爱就要结婚，结婚就要生育

但我认为恋爱、结婚、生育是完全不同的三件事，恋爱不一定非得结婚，结婚不一定非得生育，这里面的每一种选择都代表一种生活方式，你的选择决定着你以后的生活方式，所以你完全可以选择自己想要的生活方式

那恋爱、结婚、生育到底是怎么一回事呢？

恋爱应该是这三件事里面最幸福的一件事，它会让你享受心动、甜蜜、快乐、陪伴的时光，我也觉得恋爱的目的是体验美好的快乐时光，获得美好的人生体验，而不是结婚，如果两个人在一起有结婚的计划那完全也可以选择结婚

结婚是两个人不想结束美好的恋爱关系，想共同体验接下来的人生，并决定用一个仪式“昭告天下”它不同于恋爱时候的自由没有束缚，结婚以后要面对的是复杂的社会关系以及经济关系，还要承担法律责任和义务，但结婚也不一定非得生育

生育应该是双方在拥有一段非常棒的恋爱和婚烟关系后，在美好的婚烟生活中自然而然做出的决定

所以婚烟和生育从来都不是因果关系，不是因为结婚了，所以就要孩子，而是因为结婚了，并且婚烟很幸福，所以有一天双方决定把一个小生命带到自己的生活中。

作为女性，在生育之前一定要了解生育的成本以及养育成本，如果你觉得当下的婚烟不适合生孩子，那么你有权不要孩子，生育是女人的权利之一，所以请务必慎重使用它。

但作为女性也一定要努力实现经济和精神双独立，只有成为一个独立的人，你的婚烟才不会被要求生育作为附加条件，你才能自由地选择想要的生活方式，将命运掌握在自己的手中。