an outdated concept

Filial  piety is a very  outdated concept.I have seen too many parents kidnapped their children with filial piety.For example you can see how hard we work.when you grow up you must be filial to us.I believe many people have heard similar words.In fact don't you think this is moral kidnapping.This kind of filial piety is not based on Equality  and Voluntariness.But also a little moral kidnapping even a kind of trade.when parents love their children,they always carry many additional conditions.You should be filial.You should be sensible.you should have good grades.you should have a family and a career .but a child's love for his parents has been unconditional since he was the youngest.so the concept of filial piety is quite outdated.Don't expect your child to be filial to you. just  love you all the time