规则8:37 9:00
rules, set rules, regulation, strict rules, establish disciplines,
Admittedly, rules can help children make the children responsible for their behavior and help them develop good behavior patterns. Unlike adults, children are not aware of the consequences of bad behavior and they also lack self discipline, and setting rules can help them to behave in a socially acceptted way and they can keep company with others. For example, chiledren can learn how to show good manners and get along with others, which is a important skill for their adult life. In contrast, if the children do not prevent them from using bad words and bullying in compus, they will not establish close relationshop with others in adulthood.
However, though rules can contribute to their healthy habits, strict rules can hamper their problem-solving ability, if their parents who set strict rules give priority to obeidence. Children have to rely heavily on disciplines blindly and they do not how to solve problems independently. For example they will not able to manage themselves ,as a result of strict upbringing and they will not able to decide what to do in their workplace withour their parents direction.They will not have job prospect in the future.(they are not likely to success in future.)
In addition, obeying rules blindly can stifle their creativity and they can not solve problems in different ways. They are not dare to start their own business because of their trepdation of being punished when they break the rules(disobey the rules). If they are required to solve a math problem in one way,for instance, they will be reluctant to seek(consider) other approaches. Since problems are complex in real world, they will not able to cope with them without imagination.
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