#14 - 我与你，我与它

- 我有好多好多的痛苦。我非常想改变，却觉得无力。

我需要一个强大的外界力量来帮助我改变。

- why you need an outside force to change you?

- 因为单靠我自己做不到，就像，人无法抓着自己举起自己。

- why? 

you are not changed inside when you are lift up

- 让我想想。

那么，从蛹，到蝴蝶，算不算是一种改变？它还是它，可它又改变了。蛹，它是如何做到的呢？

- you are asking a wrong question.

it is not how, 

but when.