I'm sorry to hear about your father.
I hope he died peacefully.
Emmm, he knew it was coming, and he had a good life.
He'd been sick for about a year.
Luckily, there wasn't much pain.
So, how is your mother?
She isn't taking it well.
Even though she knew it was coming, she has a hard time without him.
She says the house seems so empty and she feels useless.
(She's having a hard time because she feels useless.)
I can imagine.
Does she have many friends?
She has a few, but she's never been very social.
Maybe she'll get out a bit more now, but I don't think that's very likely.
She's also beginning to lose her memory.
Oh, that's too bad.
My Mom is losing her memory, too.
Some times she doesn't know who I am.
She mixes me up with my sister.
Does she live by herself?
She did until about a year ago.
Then we had her come and stay with us.
How is that working out?
It was okay at first, but now with her memory problems, it isn't working.
We are thinking about putting her into a senior living community.
It's expensive but it can provide her with the support she needs.
(Senior communities generally provide meals and medical support.)
We may have to do that, too.
My husband and mother don't get along at all.
He can't relax when she's around.
When I mentioned it to him, he said he would consider it, but only if it were for a very short time.
Well, I'm sorry you have to deal with it.
It doesn't seem like there are any good choices.
Emmm, I'm afraid that's right.
We're getting older, too.
This is another reminder of our mortality.
We're no longer children, so now it's our turn to take care of our parents.
The way I see it, it's a reminder for us to enjoy life while we can.
If you like, I can send you information about some senior communities.
Please do, we need to start making plans.
There are waiting lists to get into some of them, so you shouldn't wait to apply.
(He might agree to it if it's for a very short time.)
(The fact that our parents are getting old is a reminder that we are only young once.)
(They need to start making plans because some options require a waiting period.)
(Her mother's memory problems have gotten worse, so it's more difficult to live with her.)
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