With heavy burden of jobs and families, people now seemed worn by life through all ages. The “Buddhist-like youth” represents people’s general attitude towards life. It seems like life would be boring like this. But, given insight into life, it can be happy and meaningful.
It’s crucial to place the importance on the right side. Some people give priority to obtaining financial gains because they believe abundant money makes happiness. However, the results of it is not always great. Materials of the sorts, far from happiness, cannot present a real better life, with regard to the jealousy it may produce, which run counterintuitive to positive things,thus we may call it “enjoyment” not “happiness”. Those who seeks to derive meaning out of life elsewhere, thinking that happiness doesn’t just consist of material possessions will get the meaning of life.
The more you cherish life itself, the happier you are. If a person always desire for everything and envy others all the time, he will never live better, for he will always be dissatisfied with his presence, and has no idea when he will live a happy and meaningful life.The opposite side of the former is the one who takes every person and material and every things occurred in life as a gift. He shows his gratitude for their appearance for the reason that he believe no one is destined to own everything and everything deserves appreciation. In this case, he will feel better every day from the moment he wakes up. The world itself is the meaning for him and that he lives in presence.
You can set a goal and then enjoy the process. You can set ahead of you a series of goals and then tried to reach them, one at a time. A goal can range from variety of things — reading 100 books on a year, jogging until capable of taking part in a marathon, passing an examination of higher education or certification, doing research on some areas for helping accelerate science and technology, etc. The emphasis on setting up those goals don’t merely put in the outcome of them but the process of learning, striking and adjusting. You can live better than the past by what you have been invited from them. They are the manifestation of helping you adapt to a new way of thinking, to get tougher than ever, to balance your relationships and your goal in a proper way. You will grow more buoyant and optimistic about the future than you have for a long time.The most precious thing lies in your feeling of being meaningful when pursuing the goal.
Why not help others to live better. I have no intention to persuade you donate every coins to others. The ways used to make benefits for others are pervasive—donating clothes to rural poor people, buying supportive goods restrained by natural disasters, creating more facilities for the disable. In other words, turn your ability into something useful to others. These behaviors can not only improve other’s life but yours. The world we live in is a community with a shared future, what we do to others will be given back to ourselves. Help others to live better is equal to make ourselves live happier and more meaningful in the world.
To live a happy and meaningful life means is far more simple than being imagined. Real happiness needs no flourishes. The ingredients for a better life consists on love, courage, kindness, persistence—all those spirts that make you find yourself a sense of happiness and meaningfulness.
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