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[Quora高赞回答]生活教给你的最重要的40条教训

[Quora高赞回答]生活教给你的最重要的40条教训

作者: 7078364cb402 | 来源:发表于2018-12-11 20:51 被阅读11次

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This year has taught me so much about life and what it really means. It surprises me how little I know and how much there still is to learn. A truly fulfilled life is only possible when you commit to continuous learning.

Who knows, in a few years I’ll probably look at this article and think to myself how amateur I was at this moment in my life.

Here are 41 truths about life I have learned this year:

1. You must love yourself first and talk nicely to yourself. Self-talk changes everything.

2. Minimalism will help accent what you love. Too much stuff will distractyou.

3. Forgiveness is power. Holding onto stuff hurts you more than anyone else.

4. Most of the answers you seek are right in front of them. You’ve been ignoring these answers because they seem cliché and obvious. Stop doingthis.

5. No one has all the answers

6. The success you see in other people is only 1% of their life. Most of what you can’t see is the negativity and failures they endure. Spend more time going beyond people’s success.

7. Your mind is determining how you feel. If you feel crap, change the inputs of your mind.

8. Happiness is found in the simple stuff. If you’re not happy, you’re trying toovercomplicate it.

9. Being kind to people always feels good.

10. Anyone can be inspiring including you.

11. Business is about rallying people together. It’s not about an idea, or one person, or even coming up with something entirely new. Understand people and you’ll master business.

12. Time is the currency you should guard with your life. Measure and watch your time.

13. Sometimes, lack of planning is the best thing you can do. You can’t predict every outcome and spontaneity adds to the fun of life.

14. We need balance. Balance between work, travel, love, family and everything in-between.

15. You have advice that can help people. Share it and be a part of other people’s journeys.

16. The workforce has changed. Emotional intelligence, life experience and leadership are now at the top of desirable business traits.

17. Nothing stays the same so don’t expect it to (especially as you get older).

18. Learning to say no will give you the time to pursue your dream.

19. Be honest no matter what. Tell people what you think respectfully and they’ll love you for it.

20. Ideas mean nothing. Execution trumps all.

21. The ability to make decisions quickly will help you progress in life much quicker.

22. Reality is different for everyone so quit expecting people to see exactly what you see.

23. No one has time to dwell on your problems. They have enough of their own. So, make as many mistakes as you want and don’t be afraid what people think.

24. Fear can be controlled and once you get started, you’ll forget about it anyway. Let fear excite you and tell you that you’re breaking your comfort zone which is phenomenal.

25. Money is boring. Wisdom is far more exciting.

26. There’s no time like the present to do that thing you’ve always dreamed about. Stop delaying as you may not get the chance to do that one thing ever again.

27. Your career is defined by who you are as a person and nothing else.

Experience and skills can be learned.

28. Courage takes guts and it’s the first step to being a leader.

29. Criticism and negative opinions about your life’s work are a sign that you’re making progress.

30. Doing things that inspire you is the best feeling in the world. Chase that.

31. The game of racking up possessions never ends. You can never own everything and everything you collect will get boring quickly. The best collection you can have is enjoyable memories.

32. Your dream, passion, goal is not going to find you. You must find it and that takes work.

33. The stuff you’re the most scared of is the very thing that will help you grow. Growing is a must.

34. Lying never helps you win in the long-term. The damage it causes is often hidden, but its effect will ruin your life if you don’t stop it.

35. The notifications on your devices are screwing with your head. Turn all of them off and see the difference it makes.

36. Your life is a piece of art so use it to do something creative.

37. Sabotage TV for books and podcasts. That’s how you learn and get new ideas.

38. Remember that rules are just a guideline and they are open to interpretation. Nothing is absolute.

39. What will improve your life is giving up those things you know deep inside of you are bad for you. You know what they are. Kill them off one by one.

40. Quotes are profound and they can give you your own unique mantra to live your life by. Find a few that have meaning to you and put them where you can see them.

41. There’s no limit on greed. There’s no such thing as quick money. If you win once, you’ll get complacent and lose next time around or the time after that.

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译文:

        这一年教会了我很多关于生命及其真正意义的东西。令我惊讶的是,我知道的太少,还有太多东西需要学习。只有当你致力于不断学习时,才能实现真正的舒适生活。

        谁知道,几年后我可能会看看这篇文章,并想一想生命中的此刻我是多么天真的生活的门外汉。

        以下是我今年学到的关于生活的41个真理:

        1.你必须先爱自己,好好对自己说话。自我改变会改变一切。

        2.极简主义将有助于强调你所爱的。太多的东西会分散你的注意力。

        3.宽恕就是力量。抓住一件事情不放比任何人都伤害你。

        4.你寻求的大部分答案都在你的面前。你一直忽视这些答案,因为它们看似陈词滥调。别这么做了。

        5.没有人能得到所有答案

        6.你在别人身上看到的成功只占他们生活的1%。你看不到的大多数是他们忍受的消极和失败。花更多的时间超越人们的成功。

        7.你的思想决定了你的感受。如果你感到麻烦,改变你的想法。

        8.幸福就在简单的东西中找到。如果你不开心,那你就是在试图复杂化它。

        9.善待人们总是感觉良好。

        10.包括你在内的任何人都可以鼓舞人心。

        11.生意就是把人聚集在一起。这不是一个想法,也不是一个人,甚至不是一个全新的东西。了解人,你将掌握业务。

        12.时间是你应该保护自己生命的货币。衡量并观察您的时间。

        13.有时候,缺乏计划是你能做的最好的事情。你无法预测每一个结果,自发性增加了生活的乐趣。

        14.我们需要平衡。工作,旅行,爱情,家庭和中间的一切之间的平衡。

        15.你的建议可以帮助别人。分享它,成为其他人的旅程的一部分。

        16.劳动力已发生变化。情绪智力,生活经验和领导力现在处于理想的商业特征的首位。

        17.没有什么能保持不变,所以不要指望它(尤其是随着年龄的增长)。

        18.学会说不,会给你时间去追求你的梦想。

        19.无论如何都要诚实。告诉别人你的尊重,他们会爱你。

        20.想法毫无意义。执行胜过一切。

        21.快速做出决定的能力将帮助你更快地进步。

       22.现实对每个人来说都是不同的,所以不要期望人们看到你看到的确切内容。

       23.没有人有时间纠缠你的问题。他们有足够的自己。所以,尽可能多地犯错,不要害怕别人的想法。

       24.恐惧可以控制,一旦你开始,你无论如何都会忘记它。让恐惧激动你,并告诉你,你正在打破你的舒适区,这是惊人的。

        25.钱太无聊了。智慧更令人兴奋。

       26.现在没有时间去做你梦寐以求的事情了。停止延迟,因为你可能没有机会再做一件事。

       27.你的职业生涯取决于你是一个人,而不是别的。

        28.勇气取得成就,这是成为领导者的第一步。

        29.对你生活工作的批评和否定意见表明你正在取得进步。

       30.做一些激励你的事情是世界上最好的感受。追逐那个。

       31.筹集财产的游戏永远不会结束。你永远不会拥有一切,你收集的一切都会很快变得无聊。您可以拥有的最佳收藏品是愉快的回忆。

       32.你的梦想,激情,目标不会找到你。你必须找到它,这需要工作。

       33.你最害怕的东西就是帮助你成长的东西。成长是必须的。

       34.说谎永远不会帮助你赢得长期胜利。它造成的伤害往往是隐藏的,但是如果你不阻止它会影响你的生命。

       35.您设备上的通知正在拧紧您的头部。关闭所有它们,看看它的不同之处。

       36.你的生活是一件艺术品,所以用它做一些有创意的事。

       37.请记住,规则只是一个指导原则,它们可以解释。没有什么是绝对的。

       38.什么会改善你的生活就是放弃那些你内心深处知道的事情对你不利。你知道它们是什么。一个接一个地杀掉他们。

       39.行情是深刻的,他们可以给你自己独特的口头禅来过你的生活。找一些对你有意义的东西,把它们放在你能看到的地方。

       40.贪婪没有限制。没有快钱这样的东西。如果你赢了一次,你就会自满并且在下一次或之后的时间会失败。

    生命永不停息,把握好当前!

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