放弃之前，先问问自己

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 我想说：“其实，每一个人都会有一个念头，就是对模一件事情久了就会感到厌倦或疲惫，就会很想放弃它。(I would like to say: “In fact, everyone will have an idea. That is, face a thing for a long time will be tired or bored, would feel want to give up.)

不管是在事业，感情或生活上的某种事情，都会有一种冲动的感觉很想要放弃。这是对每一个人的正常心里反应 (Whether it is in the job, feelings or something in life, there will be a feeling of impulse want to give up. This is a normal psychological reaction to each individual) ”

放弃之前，先问问自己

不过在你放弃之前，先问问自己这 6 个问题：(But before that ask yourself why you want to give up? )

放弃永远比坚持还要容易，放弃只需要一天的时间 (Give up is always easily than insist, giving up can takes only a day time)

坚持切可能要数年之久

(Insist may take several years)

放弃很容易，坚持很困难

(It 's easy to give up and stick hard)

这也是为什么能夠成功的人永远是少数的那些人。

(This is why those who can succeed will always be the few)

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在你放弃之前，试着跟自己的內心对话

(Before give up, try to ask yourself)

找出对自己最好的一个決定。

(Find the best decision for yourself)

放弃之前，先问问自己

赶紧來看看吧...（Take A Look)

1、你坚持的夠久吗?

(How long you insist)

只要坚持走得夠久，我们就能夠达到別人沒有达到的地方，走出別人沒有走出的距离。

(As long as we Insist on long enough, we will be able to reach other people did not reach the place)

无论是什么事情，在你放弃之前，都应该想想自己坚持得夠久了吗? 或许你才撑了几天、几个礼拜、几个月而已，又或许是你需要有更多的付出才会有好结果。

( No matter what, before you give up, you should think about their own persistence enough? Perhaps you only hold a few days,a few weeks, or a few months only. Maybe you need to pay out more there will be good results)

在你坚持得夠久以前，別轻易放弃，除非你确认这条路不是你自己想要走的路。

(At least the way is not you want)

 2、放弃这件事会让你后悔吗?

(Give up it will make you regrets?)

人临终最后悔的五件事

(People regrets the most last five things)

1) 我希望当初～有勇气过自己真正想要的生活

(I hope I have the courage to live their own real life)

2) 我希望当初～我沒有花这么多精力在工作上

(I hope I did not spend so much energy on work)

3) 我希望当初～我能有勇气表达我的感受

(I hope I can have the courage to express my feelings)

4) 我希望当初～我能和朋友保持联系

(I hope I Keep in touch with any friends or relationship)

5) 我希望当初～我能让自己活过开心點无遗憾

(I hope I can live happily without any regrets)

放弃很容易，只要双手一摊，大聲告訴自己：

「我累了，不做了」

( I'm tired, I don't want to do it)

你身上的重担就会顿时卸去，但…..这样真的好吗? 可以维持多久？

问问自己：「放弃这件事会让你后悔吗?」

(Ask Yourself: Will you regret it if you give up? )

会让你临终前对于自己在这件事情上，因为沒有坚持下去感到后悔吗？

3、如果放弃了，你会开心嗎? (Do you feel happy when you give up？）

说到底，如果你放弃了，真正让你放弃的是你自己，而不是別人。

问问自己：「放弃这件事，会让你自己感到开心吗？」

(Ask Yourself: Give up this thing, It's will make you happy?)

如果答案是否定的. 代表你是真心喜欢眼前这件事

( If Answer No , That's mean you are really like in front of this matter)

那么继续坚持下去或许才是最好的选择。

(Then continue to stick to it maybe is a best good choice)

4、你尝试过所有的方法了吗? (Have you tried all the way?)

一个肯尝试错误的人生，不但比无所事事的人生更荣耀，并且更有意义。

(People are willing to try the wrong life, better than doing nothing. It will more glory, and more meaningful.)

许多人想放弃的原因，不是因为他走错了路，而是因为迟迟沒有好的结果，所以感到身心疲惫以及失去信心。

(Many people want to give up, not because he is the wrong way, but because there is no good results, so feel physically and mentally exhausted and lose confidence)

此時，应该问问自己：「是否用錯了方法?」

(This time, need to ask yourself: It's wrong method I used?)

尝试用相同的方法，切想得到不一样的結果，

这种事永远也不可能發生，或许你该做的不是放弃，

而是换另外一种方法尝尝看看。

(Try to use the same method, think to get different results,this kind of thing will never happen, maybe you should do is not to give up, but for another way or method to try out.)

5、你放弃的这件事是你喜欢的吗?

(You give up this thing is your favorite?）

如果你对喜欢的事情永不放弃、持续下去，那你就有可能实现梦想或是找到另一个不错的可能。

(If you never ever give up on the things you like, then you are likely to realize the dream or find out another good possibility.)

去做你真正喜欢做的事，然后把它做好，这就是一种成功，如果你不喜欢某件事，那么最好的方式就是不要投入。

(Do what you really like to do, and then do it well, this is a success, if you do not like something, then the best way is not to put into)

问问自己：「是否真的喜欢眼前这件事?」( Ask Yourself: Did you really like your in front of thing?)

如果是，那么就应该持续坚持下去。

(If yes , just continue to do it)

6、放弃以后，你打算做什么?（After giving Up, what are you going to do?）

会想放弃一定有原因，但如果是因为过程太过困难，或许就不是一个好的理由

(Will want to give up sure Hhave some reason, but if it is because the process is too difficult or hard, perhaps this is not a good reason)

问问自己：「放弃以后，打算做什么?」

(Ask Yourself: After giving up, next what should i going to do? )

如果決定去做其他的事情，那件事会比眼前这件事更好嗎?

(If you decide to do other things, it's that thing will be better than the present thing?)

在放弃之前，记得想好下一步该怎么走。

(Before giving up, remember how to take the next step)

放弃之前，先问问自己

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 別轻易放弃，在放弃之前...

(Do not give up , before giving up)

请做每一件事情，先三思而后行

(Please Think Twice Before Make Any Decisions)

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