研究生（a）搬完家，他的台式电脑受到搬家事件影响，开不了机了。

有人（b）厨房里传来声音说：“他自己弄了两天没弄好”。

有人（c）搭话：“拿去店里给师傅修理啊！”。

有人（d）在玩手机（不知是在看电视，刷朋友圈，刷博客，看抖音，还是逛淘宝）没搭话。

有人（e 和 f）在一起玩玩具，也没搭话。

我很诧异，非常诧异：你们（a、b、c、d、e）都忘了我曾经的专业了么？（f 还小是还不知道）这么瞧不起电子技术给生活带来的便利么？这么不信任我？这么瞧不起我么？要忍不住了：“师傅就在这啊，找什么师傅？”

c：“哦，你是喜欢搞那些东西！那你帮忙看下啊！”

（我喜欢“搞那些东西”？我喜欢吗？完全不是，我只是学以致用。从小就好奇心比较重，想探个究竟而去“搞那些东西”的，真不喜欢，谈不上喜欢，一点都不喜欢。这些东西往往都不太干净，你们又不是不知道我遗传了一点点 H 的洁癖！）

我不太情愿的站起身来准备动手。

a：“搬的时候有摔到，应该是摔了导致开不了机的。”

我开始分析：摔得重是可能导致电子器件损坏的；也有可能导致接口和插槽、各模块之间接触不良。

前者是比较坏的情况，不容易修理，坏的元器件或模块得换。

后者对于电子技术专业出身的我来说应该不是难事。

想起曾经有遇到类似的情况，是因为内存条接触不良导致。

走近电脑桌，看了下主机箱，有压弯机箱的痕迹，于是我主要做了四个动作：

1、重新拔插了内存条。

2、重新拔插了硬盘连接线。

3、检查了电源模块相关的连接线，没有松开，没有异常。

4、接通电源，按了启动按钮。

正常启动了！！（没见到“开不了机了”是什么。）

前后5分钟时间左右。

我没吭声，坐回了沙发上。

a：“咦！正常启动了！”

c：“哇！什么原因导致的？”

我想：就这……搞了两天还没搞好？

我：“我也不知道啊！”

我：“白读书啊。”

c：“很会！他是比你读的书多。”【“很会” 客家话，是你厉害，你真厉害（牛啥？）的意思】

修电脑事情终。

修好电脑我只说了两句话：我也不知道啊！白读书啊！

我为什么会这么回应？

是因为“知识的诅咒”引导我说出了这两句话，有点“暴力”！有点“过分”！

敢想（非感想，敢想敢做的敢想）：

1，不要太把自己当回事

2，要把别人当回事

3，通过表象下的结论不一定是正确的结论

我亲妈认识我30年了都还经常误解我，在我身上下过不少错误的结论，我们却经常对某事某物轻易地下结论。

4，打破“知识的诅咒”有必要

我是不是应该这样说去替代“我也不知道啊！”：我也不太清楚到底是什么原因，可能是内存条接触不良，可能是硬盘线接触不良，可能是电源线接触不良，我就重新拔插、动过这三个模块。

同时，我是不是应该这样说去替代“白读书啊！”：a 或许应该按照通信原理（信号输出，媒介，信号输入）试着检查下所有接口，重新拔插下，把因为震荡、挤压导致错位、歪曲的模块、器件归位下然后重启试下，这样可能他自己就搞好了。

5，“非暴力沟通”有必要

我是不是应该这样说：我是电子技术专业出身，我还在电子厂干过一年家电产品质量管控的工作，请问能否先让我试试修不修得好？去替代：师傅就在这啊，找什么师傅？

a 和 b 应该是知道我的专业的，也本就有要我帮忙修理电脑的愿望，我不该那么诧异，那么“暴力”地以为他们（a、b、c、d）怎么都不认为我有能力处理这种小问题）

6，多读书，多思考，多实践

7，获取知识是为了生活工作中用，不单只为了学历文凭

附：

1、a：我哥，b：我嫂，c：我妈，d：我爸，e：我老婆，f：我侄女，H：已故的校长外公

2、为什么不是大写的字母代表人物：我们都是小人物，小！所以不大写。已故外公是教师，伟大的职业，大人物，必须大写。

3、搞那些东西：是指捣腾玩具，修理玩具，修理电磁炉，冰箱，电脑，自己拆装手机、笔记本等事件

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Graduate student (a) moved home, his desktop computer was affected by the moving event, and could not open the machine.

Someone (b) heard a voice in the kitchen saying: "He didn't make it for two days."

Someone (c) talked: "Take the store to the master to repair!".

Some people (d) are playing mobile phones (I don’t know if they are watching TV, brushing friends, brushing blogs, watching vibrato, or visiting Taobao).

Someone (e and f) played with toys together and didn't talk.

I am very surprised, very surprised: have you (a, b, c, d, e) forgot my professionalism? (f is still small, still don't know) So sorry for the convenience brought by electronic technology to life? Don't trust me so much? Can you look down on me? I can't help it: "The master is here, what kind of master are you looking for?"

c: "Oh, you like to do those things! Then you can help me!"

(I like to "make those things"? I like it? Not at all, I just learned to use it. I have been very curious since I was a child. I want to find out what to do and "do those things". I really don't like it. I can't talk about it. I don't like it at all. These things are often not very clean, and you don't know that I have inherited a little bit of H!)

I reluctantly stood up and prepared to start.

a: "There was a fall when I moved, it should have been dropped, and it could not be opened."

I began to analyze: the heavy weight may cause damage to the electronic device; it may also cause poor contact between the interface and the slot and between the modules.

The former is a relatively bad situation, it is not easy to repair, and bad components or modules have to be replaced.

The latter should not be difficult for me to be a professional in electronics technology.

I think that I have encountered a similar situation because of poor contact with the memory.

Approaching the computer desk, looked at the main box, there are traces of the bent chassis, so I mainly did four actions:

1. Re-plug the memory module.

2. Re-plug the hard drive cable.

3. Check the connection line of the power module, no loose, no abnormality.

4. Turn on the power and press the start button.

Start up normally! ! (I didn’t see what it’s like to be unable to open the machine.)

About 5 minutes before and after.

I didn't say anything, I sat back on the sofa.

a: "Hey! Normal startup!"

c: "Wow! What caused it?"

I thought: Just this... I haven’t done it for two days?

Me: "I don't know!"

Me: "Reading in white."

c: "It will be! He is more than the book you read." ["It will be very good" Hakka words, you are powerful, you are really powerful (burdock?)

Repair the computer at the end.

I only said two sentences when I fix the computer: I don't know! Read a book in white!

Why am I responding like this?

It is because the "curse of knowledge" led me to say these two sentences, a bit "violent"! A bit "excessive"!

Dare to think (not feeling, dare to dare to do):

1, don't take yourself too seriously

2, to take others seriously

3, through the conclusion of the conclusion is not necessarily the correct conclusion

My mom has known me for 30 years and often misunderstood me. I have made many wrong conclusions on me, but we often make conclusions about something easily.

4, it is necessary to break the "curse of knowledge"

Should I say this instead of "I don't know!": I don't know exactly what the reason is. It may be that the memory module is in poor contact. It may be that the hard disk cable is not in good contact. It may be that the power cord is not in good contact. Re-plug and move these three modules.

At the same time, should I say this instead of "white reading!": a Maybe you should try to check all the interfaces according to the communication principle (signal output, medium, signal input), re-plug and insert, because of shock, squeeze The module that caused the misplacement, distortion, and the device to be placed under the position and then restarted, may be done by himself.

5, "non-violent communication" is necessary

Should I say this: I am a professional in electronics technology. I have been working on the quality control of home appliances in the electronics factory for a year. Can you let me try it first? To replace: the master is here, what teacher to find?

a and b should know my profession, and there is a desire for me to help repair the computer. I shouldn’t be so surprised, so “violently” think that they (a, b, c, d) don’t think of me. Ability to handle this small problem)

6, more reading, more thinking, more practice

7, access to knowledge is used for life and work, not only for academic diplomas

8, don't think that if you say something, someone listens, the written text is read, don't take yourself too seriously, and entertain yourself.

Attached:

1, a: my brother, b: I am, c: my mother, d: my father, e: my wife, f: my niece, H: the late principal of the grandfather

2, why not the capital letters represent the characters: we are all small people, small! So don't write big. The late grandfather is a teacher, a great profession, a big man, must be capitalized.

3, engage in those things: refers to the toys, repair toys, repair cookers, refrigerators, computers, disassemble mobile phones, notebooks, etc.