Today I suddenly realized that maybe I misunderstood what bro feng said about the new idea of learning language. My first try yesterday was just like a pupil homework or a small translation task..And shamefully, I sent it to bro feng... Feng said in the post:
>>We always have an illusion about free will.
>>You are your memory.
If I were Adler, I totally don't believe in these words. Ppl who stick with memory and traumatic past always because they are not willing to be better off(Although they don't realize). If you feel your life is sucks, it is not because of your background, your old experience, or your traumatic past, it is because of you. It is you that have the right to define the effects from what had happened in the past. Stick to the past is a waste of time. Maybe swimming in the world of self-defense is safe or controllable, but wake up, it is no good for better life. Just move on and grow up. We should focus on the opportunity of changeable. Jane lili said in her book: All of Your Past Can't Define You. How Adler it was!
Still, Adler will think like that, I like bro feng's opinion, because it is more romantic and aesthetic.
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