坚持持续的价值输入是我坚持写作的目的之一,希望每一篇文章对你都有收获。
可能对于绝大部分人来说,都会经常制定计划,包括长期、中期和短期计划,每个月、季度、半年、年可能也会有相应的总结,也许所有人都遇到过的问题就是“计划过于理想,而现实往往很骨感”,我们很多的时间都是用来做计划上,而不是如何执行,后者才是我们更应该思考的事情,解决这个问题的方案我想是我把我们的计划精简,乔爷最喜欢用3这个数字,今天根据主题,我们也给出3个解决方案,不妨一试。
1.Tip#1: Expose your negative thoughts for what they truly are
正视你的负面想法,他们本质到底是什么。
Ever listened to Rap God? Eminem raps the last verse of the song at an insane speed that not so many will comprehend it properly without checking the lyrics first. Similarly, this is how your deeply-integrated fears, worries, and negative thoughts operate inside your mind – probably 10X faster.
当我们看到一个性感的美女走过来的时候,可能我们会有一些不自在,这时我们过往的经历不知为什么会自然的浮现在我们的脑海中,我们也不知道为什么会发生这个情况。
Your only way out of this dilemma is to put those thoughts under the microscope and examine their validity. But you can`t do this unless you journal these thoughts on paper so you can analyze them slowly and with better understanding.
许多的研究都表明,经常写日记(尤其是描述自己心里体会的)的人,可以更好的排解自己不好的情绪,这有助于缓解自己的压力,我们遇到的所有问题都是一样,如果能够写出来(坦诚的分析),可能会有助于我们更好的理解自己。
Tip#2: Meditate like your life depends on it (Cause it does)
Life is so stressing and anxiety-provoking, and if you have a bad temper, that`s even worse. I used to be a very short-tempered person. Not the typical short-tempered man but more of the take no shit from nobody, can`t stand a critic type.
Everyone around me told me I should meditate, or see a doctor, but I didn`t. Until I lost my temper one day in front of a big fish who didn`t like my attitude – well, who blames him – and I lost a dream, five-figure a month client.
每天花10-15分钟时间进行冥想训练,通过感受自己的呼吸,可以缓解我们的压力、增强我们的自我意识感受、改善睡眠质量、增强专注力等等,每天早晨我都会冥想10分钟,希望你可以试试,我想这一点只有训练过的人才有亲身的体会。
Tip#3: Run, Forrest, Run!
这是阿甘正传里面的一句话。
I highly encourage that you run around the block, or at the gym, at least once a week. Don`t do it for the six packs. There`s a bunch of other activities to lose weight faster, but not so many that will teach you how to control your mind and stay mentally sharp.
其实以上3点不难做到,难的是坚持每天都做,持之以恒。
先坚持1个月试一试,你想试试看吗?
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