(Madeline and Daniel are watching TV)
Daniel, can we talk about something?
Of course! What's wrong?
Well… I feel very sad…
Do you want ice cream? Ice cream always makes me feel better!
I don't want ice cream.
Ok…do you want to listen to your favorite song?
No, not right now. I've been so sad since I lost my job.
I know, but you have job interviews soon! Let's practice for them now!
Frist question: why do you want this job?
Daniel…
Hmm…let's look at your resume. It's… amazing! The job is yours!
Daniel…
I'm not Daniel! I'm …Mr. Stevens, your new boss.
Please stop! I don't want to practice. I just want to talk to my boyfriend.
I'm sorry…I'm trying to help.
I'm know, Daniel. But I just want you to listen to me.
Ok, you're right… wow,Mr. Stevens is a very bad listener!
善于表达的人很多，善于倾听的人很少，供需极不平衡。
今天两次和曹同志闲聊，都被他打断话头。
我其实只是想和他分享CJL的一点儿情况，他只要好好听着就行，不需要他指点江山…
就像“丹尼尔”一样，你说他错了吗？不能说他错，他已经根据他的经验努力帮助“玛德琳”了
但此时女朋友最需要的却是倾听，他提供的解决问题的方法，女朋友一定知道，并不需要他来赘述。
很多时候，父母和子女之间的交流也是一样
我们向对方倾诉烦恼，并不是要从对方那里获得解决问题的方法，而只是一种情感的诉求，我需要知道：你在我身边，我并不孤单
如此而已
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