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small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

作者: 科研部办公室 | 来源:发表于2018-03-20 05:42 被阅读0次
    small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

    当你和领导或同事同乘电梯时,我们被极静的氛围压迫着得说点什么,却不知如何开口;

    当不太熟的同学朝你迎面走来时,还相隔十几米的时候就不知道眼睛朝哪里看了,更为擦肩而过的那几秒该说些什么而格外焦虑;

    超市排队结账的时候,你只能尴尬地朝收银员微笑,却听见隔壁收银台谈笑风生。

    Take it easy!

    教你small talk,巧妙填充这些尴尬的瞬间,让你“有话聊”!

    热情的打招呼

    没有人会对微笑sayno,不管是认识的同事、同学、朋友,还是初见的陌生面孔,热情地打招呼是开启谈话的第一步。

    -Hi, Jenny, it's good to see you.认识的人

    -Hi,my name is Sara, what's your name?第一次见的人。在对方回答后,重复一遍对方的名字会留下更好的印象哦。

    small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

    寻找话题

    1. 赞美

    没有人不喜欢赞美,一句真诚简单的赞美既可以打破尴尬,又可以让对方开心,一举两得。

    - I like your shoes, where did you get them?

    - Your hair always looks great, what hair products do you use?

    如果只是擦肩而过,赞美就好。如果真的要需要停下来聊天,赞美以后抛出问题,人们总是乐于谈论自己。

    small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

    2. 天气

    天气这个话题最无聊却又最保险,但巧妙地从天气延伸到别的话题,会让你们的谈话更丰富。

    - It's getting warm, any plans for the weekend?

    - It's snowing all day. What do you usually do on snowy days? I feel so bored.

    3. 食物

    食物是人类永恒的话题,无论是共同的探讨,还是单方面的分享,都可以提供很多谈话素材。

    在party上认识的新朋友

    -this cocktail is really fancy, what's in it?

    然后就可以你一言我一语地认真讨论了,中间再夹杂着讨论一下各自最爱的cocktail以及做法,甚至聊一聊自己的醉酒经历,适当地爆一下自己的糗事可以迅速拉近距离。

    4. 在朋友家做客

    the food is so yummy, can you give me the recipe?

    这样既赞美了对方,又提供了后续的话题。

    small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

    5. 娱乐

    无论是电视节目、体育赛事、音乐演出,还是各种主题公园、户外活动,都可以成为很好的谈话素材。在不太了解对方的情况下,谈论那些火遍全球的项目就最保险了。

    - Did you watch the Game of Thrones? The red wedding is so horrible!

    - Did you watch the Oscars last week? I can’t believe Leonardo DiCaprio finally won one!

    - I went to the Disneyland last week, it was so much fun!

    small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

    6. 工作

    工作的间隙也需要一些small talk与同事联络感情,你可以这样说:

    - Hi Jack. How are things going over at the IT department today?

    - What a busy day. This is the first time I’ve gotten up from my seat all day! Are you busy too?

    - The day is almost over! Do you have any interesting plans for the evening?

    6. 家乡

    美国是个大熔炉,来到这里的每个人都有自己的故事,故乡的风土人情也是大家愿意谈论的主题。同在异乡为异客,也能拉近彼此间的距离~

    - Why did you leave your hometown?

    - What is the most common food in your hometown?

    - Does it snow a lot in your hometown?

    7. 寻求建议

    当你实在不知道说什么时,寻求建议是最好的选择。将话题抛给对方,你只需时不时给一些积极的回应就好。

    - Hey, I am thinking about adopting a dog, do you know where I can find one?

    - Hey, I am new here, can you recommend some good restaurants nearby?

    Hey Tom, you know a lot about painting, right? Where should I start if I want to learn oilpainting?

    small talk ,让你和歪果仁人“有话聊”

    结束谈话

    就跟小时候写作文要总-分-总一样,在结束谈话时提一下谈话中的主题,也会让整个谈话更圆满,同时也为下次的谈话做了铺垫。

    - It's been great talking to you. I'll let you know how that recipe works out for me.

    - I'd love to talk more about painting, but I have a meeting in 5 minutes. I am sure I'll see you soon, though.

    small talk并不难,记住热情开场,多问问题,积极反馈,结束呼应几个原则,赞美、天气、食物、娱乐、家乡、建议几个话题就好啦,祝愿大家再也不怕社交尴尬!

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