总想着大包大揽，这是怎么了？

Controlling Others Means You've Lost Control

Have you done any of these things in the past month?
在过去的一个月里，你做过这些事情吗?

Assumed someone needed help without asking.
没问过别人就觉得他们需要帮助。

Took on someone’s work because you could do it faster.
承担别人的工作，因为你可以做得更快。

Told your partner how or when to do their work.
告诉你的合作者如何或什么时候做他们的工作。

If you answered yes, you might be making yourself overly responsible for others. Some people call it “controlling”; therapists call it “overfunctioning.”
如果你回答是，你可能会让自己对别人过于负责。有些人称它为“控制”，治疗师称其为“过度运作”。

找到到自己的定位就好，
成事不必在我，
随喜一切功德。