一定听过许多爱情失败者的悲泣：“我一直企图在错误的地方找到爱情，一直企图在错误的人身上找到爱情。”这并不是问题的真相，大多数人只是在以错误的方式寻找爱情。
You’ve heard the wail of unsuccessful lovers: “I’m looking for love in all the wrong places, looking for love in all the wrong faces.” That’s not the real problem. Most have been looking for love in all the wrong ways.
戏剧演员都知道，在试镜的时候，他们需要一套特殊的技术，保证自己在极短的时间内得到某个角色。他们必须借助自己的才华在短暂的试镜过程中迅速脱颖而出，有时候必须在一分钟甚至更短的时间内就完成这个任务。同理，你也需要一套特殊的技术让意中人迅速爱上你，并让这恋情达到可以持续一生的温度。你必须迅速打动意中人的心——有时候必须在一分钟甚至更短的时间之内。没有那种强烈的第一波冲击，他（或她）可能根本就不会认识你，更不用说爱上你了。
Theatrical performers know they need a different set of skills to get cast from an audition than they need to sustain a role on stage. They must immediately knock producers out with their talent, sometimes in one minute or less. Likewise, you need different skills to make someone fall in love with you than you need to keep a relationship warm for a lifetime. You must knock your Quarry out—sometimes in the fifirst minute or less. Without that strong fifirst kick, he or she might never get to know you, let alone fall in love with you.
2022-10-16
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