Remember that weaknesses don’t matter if youfind solutions.
2.6 记住如果你有解决方案，那么弱项就没什么了
You almost certainlycan’t do all these steps well, because each requires different types ofthinking and virtually nobody can think well in all these ways. For example,goal setting (such as determining what you want your life to be) requires youto be good at higher-level thinking like visualization and prioritization.Identifying and not tolerating problems requires you to be perceptive and goodat synthesis and maintaining high standards; diagnosis requires you to belogical, able to see multiple possibilities, and willing to have hardconversations with others; designing requires visualization and practicality;doing what you set out to do requires self-discipline, good work habits, and aresults orientation. Who do you know who has all those qualities? Probably noone. Yet doing all 5 Steps well is required for being really successful. Sowhat do you do? First and foremost, have humility so you canget what you need from others!
几乎可以肯定你无法每样都做好，因为每一个步骤需要不同的思考和而几乎没有人能把这些步骤想透彻。举例，目标设定（比如决定你想要的生活是）需要你具有较高水平的关于未来的场景和优先级的思考。识别和对问题的不妥协需要你具有良好的感知力和综合和平衡能力；诊断需要你必须理性，逻辑严密，能分辨多种可能性，与他人展开辩论的意愿；设计虚拟和真实场景的需求；按计划执行需要自律，良好的工作习惯，结果导向。谁知道谁拥有这些品质？也许没有人。但要成功必须做好以上五步。那么你打算怎么做？第一步也是首要的保持谦卑，谦虚。
Everyone has weaknesses.They are generally revealed in the patterns of mistakes they make. Knowing whatyour weaknesses are and staring hard at them is the first step on the path tosuccess.
每个人都有弱点。通常在犯错的地方才显现出来。知道自己的弱点，正视缺点是通往成功之路的第一步。
a. Look at the patterns of yourmistakes and identify at which step in the 5-Step Process you typically fail.Ask others for their input too, as nobody can be fully objective aboutthemselves.
A．仔细观察你犯错的模式，甄别是5步法中的哪一步失败了。问问其他人他们的输入情况，毕竟没人能对自己保持绝对客观。
b. Everyone has at least onebig thing that stands in the way of their success; find yours and deal with it.Write down what your one big thing is (such as identifying problems, designingsolutions, pushing through to results) and why it exists (your emotions tripyou up, you can’t visualize adequate possibilities). While you and most peopleprobably have more than one major impediment, if you can remove or get aroundthat one really big one, you will hugely improve your life. If you work on it,you will almost certainly be able to deal successfully with your one big thing.
You can either fix it or you canget the help of others to deal with it well. There are two paths to success: 1)to have what you need yourself or 2) to get it from others. The second pathrequires you to have humility. Humility is as important, or even moreimportant, as having the strengths yourself. Having both is best. On thefollowing page is a template that some people find helpful.
B．每个人都至少有一个通往成功的障碍；找到你的并解决他。写下来你的最大的问题（例如识别问题，设计解决方案，推进执行），为什么会存在？（你的情绪使然，你无法想象足够多的可能性）。你和大多数人可能有超过一个主要障碍，如果你能消除或者绕过障碍，你会大大改善你的生活。如果你与障碍奋斗，几乎可以肯定你将成功解决问题。
你可以自己解决或者从别人那里需求帮助解决。有两个通往成功的路1）自己实现2）从他人那里获得满足。第二条路需要你保持谦卑。谦非常重要几乎或者比你自己有能力更加重要。当然两者都有是最好的。下一页有一个可能对某些人有用的模板。
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